I can't find a guy without online dating?

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Is online dating for losers? I know I am young at the age of 21 but I can't help but to feel so sad, have low self esteem, and feel unattractive because I haven't met a guy or a guy has never asked me out or wanted to date me. I think of all the people who met without the use of online dating and I start to cry and ask myself why this can't be me. I feel like I am always surrounded by guys that aren't interested in me. People always talk about meeting a guy but I feel like I would never find a guy who is interested in me without online dating. As a result, I just feel like a loser. ):

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  • (s)aint
    7 years ago

    It´s fine with online, really.

    I´m also shy and this is how I usually did it;

    find someone that lives close enough, talk to them and meet up (preferably in public) within the first weeks, by doing this you wont create a potentially false image of them and you can get to know the person IRL as well but that first awkward initiated contact is solved.

    Do remember to have decent, new pictures of you. Don´t hide behind an edited one.

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  • Brea
    7 years ago

    Hey, it's normal and don't put yourself down about it. It usually takes time to find the right guy and when you do it will be worth it, because some guys online and in public can be real jerks and (players).

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    • sandnigga
      7 years ago

      Yea dont beat yourself up over it.

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  • Midget_Farting
    7 years ago

    Online dating isn't for losers, but it just rarely works the way it supposed to. The problem is that too many people put too much faith in it. You aren't a loser, you are way TOO young to be giving up the way you seem to be.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    7 years ago

    Online dating is not for losers. There's nothing wrong with it. Most shy people I knew that used a dating website got results. Though for some of them it took years because even though it's a good way to find someone, there is a lot of wading through the waters of old-diggers and liars on there.

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  • iamperky
    7 years ago

    hit me up.

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  • tonyyaa
    7 years ago

    Everything comes with time, trust me. There is someone out there just for you. And guess what? He's also looking for you. God made someone who matches perfectly for us. But for now, work on your self esteem. Go to the gym, eat healthy, read, join clubs; stay busy. Go out and dont use online dating. Older generations had no internet and they still found someone. Get involved with real life. And have that attitude at 100% all the time. Good luck

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