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I feel like I can't go through this whole "life" thing. Getting a job, going to college, I can't even drive, I feel everyday like I wasn't meant to live this so-called "life" thing. Everyone says it's just a phase, but I'm really convinced I can't do it. Is this normal?
Do you want to drive?
Do you want to go to college?
What's your passion?
Any hobbies?
How do you pass your time?
What makes you angry, joyful, bored?
What's your favorite website? why?
It's okay to not have the answers to these questions. But don't be afraid to answer them. You have every right to change your answer as time goes on.
Eventually you will find something that interests you and you will be fine. Don't over-analyze things and try to just go with the flow. You re going to be okay in the long run.
uhm , maybe you should see a physcologist or a councilor :)
not saying its not normal, cuz im not too sure!!!
i think some people are that way. just chronically un-lifable. i don't know what they do during the day. watch tv or wander the streets or just sleep.
It's true...We are as you say "chronically un-lifable." Each day is filled with constant anxiety that is gathered from the outside world. We fear things that shouldn't be feared, and worst of all we can't help it. It's like a disease that has no cure and it constantly eats at your mind, telling you that you're not good enough for "Life." It's more melancholy than anything, if you ask me! Being isolated from the world isn't something we want, but it is something we cannot help. I am 19 years old, and I am far from lazy. But with that said, I am petrified of getting a job, going to college and just moving on with my life. I cry on a daily basis and I lost several good relationships because of my fears. I've was kicked out of my parents' house and I am currently at my Aunt's place. My life has been a nightmare and although I want to change my ways...things never seem to get any better! I have done everything I was told that might help conquer my fears of reality, but nothing has worked. Not even exercising, which is something my therapist had reccomended early on! I am currently on depression pills, but so far "NO RESULTS." People like "US" hate everything about who we are as a person, but it isn't like we can switch out of out own bodies/minds.
It's normal to feel like this, but it's not a great way to be. It eventually bites you in the butt after all.
It IS a chore stepping on the treadmill of everyday life. It all seems so pointless and absurd, but that's the system we've built, so now we have gotta live it, however sucky it is.
Ever since I was little, my dream has been to escape from all of this crud. Wanna come with me?