I can't date men with brown eyes........

OK, so for years now I have refused to date men with brown eyes. Reason being, is that I have brown eyes and I am very insecure with my eye color, therefore I don't want to give birth to a child with brown eyes. I am willing to compromise and date men with hazel or green eyes even though blue eyes are my first preference. I am aware of the rules of biology and I know that brown eyes are dominant and blue eyes are recessive, but if I marry a blue-eyed man, than the chances of having a blue-eyed baby are more likely as opposed to marrying a man with brown eyes. If I were married to a blue-eyed man and I were to give birth to a brown-eyed baby, that would be ok. Even if I never have a blue-eyed baby, I will go to my grave at peace knowing that I did everything I could to mutate my brown eyed genes. So, what do you think? I would love to see a long list of replies.......

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  • crammy

    Not dating a person because of their eye color is moronic and shallow. Hopefully you never find a man with the "right" eyes. Who knows, you might be one of those lunatics that might kidnap a blue eyed baby, just because you like its eye color.

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    • krh90

      Nope I don't have too, I am now happily married to a blue-eyed man:))))

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  • anabolic19

    well my eyes are a bit blue and a bit brown like asif the base colour is blue and i have brown around my pupil in cool little diamond shapes but brown eyes are nice there deep dark mysterious maybe your thinking abit to much about it hun if you meet a lad you like dont worry about the eye colour

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  • EbonyMT

    You might even end up dating some DUDE that got eye surgery to get his eyes blue. HAAHHAHAHAHAHA

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  • windowlicker

    LOL Dont have children EVER. That way your brown eyes and stupidity will die with you.

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    • Cody.Mooney

      You're fucked.

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  • abcin

    I am a guy and am the same way about women - I have light brown-hazel eyes but I only like blue eyes. It is normal.

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  • objectivethinker

    About the ONLY reasonably intelligent response on here so far is that IT'S OK TO HAVE PERSONAL PREFERENCES. It doesn't mean you're shallow, or insecure, or any other of the myriad excuses that are so stupidly popular to justify being non-politically correct. All it means is that you prefer blue eyes when you look at your lover, period. No one, including all of these "experts" yet knows WHY we prefer the things we prefer as individuals, but it's certainly "normal" to have preferences. Don't be bullied into thinking that just because you like one eye color more than another that there's something wrong with you. You're fine, and you have a RIGHT to like whatever you like, whether it's cherry pie, Brussels sprouts, or blue eyes.

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  • umm thats weird are you not gona like your child if it ends up with brown eyes or something

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  • SomeRandomPerson

    Unreasonable.

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  • phoenix_paradox

    Are u serious? Sorry to say it but it sounds ridiculous. It is true that we all have a kind of person to he atracted to but... Just for the eye color... Cant believe it! ... By the way my eyes are the most common and wild brown type and im proud of it!

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  • sweetlola

    so is it normal for men to prefer blonde or brunette, red etc.. but not for women to choose eye color ??? nonsens !
    i`d love to have one of those guyz in the movie "300" but with blue eyes !! btw if one them read this please get in touch !
    and indian or not follow your sweet dream, let no man stand in your way !

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  • bb2002

    I am the same way and googled to see if it was normal! I believe it is bc opposites attract. I have brown eyes. But also I think it has to do w/the fact my dad had dark hair and eyes and he was someone I did not like. So when I see brn eyes I think of that. I told myself this was stupid and married a man w/brn eyes the first time and never felt attracted to him like I shld have been. The 2nd time I married a blonde haired blue eyed man that I was very attracted to. Fireworks have flown in the romance area for many yrs completely different from marriage #1. People u meet growing up influence your likes and dislikes. My mom had blue eyes and was such a great person. I thk I associate blue eyes w/goodness. I have 2 blonde haired kids w/hazelish blue eyes !

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  • Ronin-San

    utterly moronic. YOU have a problem with brown eyes someone has made YOU insecure about them. It is no reason not to date someone who you may like or vice versa because they have brown eyes...It doesn't mean your kid wouldn't love having brown eyes...this is a problem that afflicts you this isn't something that is a widely accepted fact.

    I couldn't imagine myself with any other eye color than brown and I think they suit me very well...It's okay to have preference about who you date the last poster was right, but it is also very idiotic to disqualify someone based only on eye color.

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  • freakersball

    There is nothing wrong with having a preference. Some people prefer blue eyes, and you are one of them, so don't let anyone tell you you can't have a preference. Everyone has preferences regarding food, clothes, what kind of person they want to date/marry, etc. But you do need to accept life as it comes, if you have more than one child and one has eyes more blue than the other, just remember all people are equal and love them equally.

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  • crayolaatfive

    I'll save the whole superficial, you should love yourself spiel and just answer your question.
    No...that is not normal.

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  • Mersaphe

    You sound like a self hating Jew

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    • bow2me

      many jews have blue eyes.

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  • Sounds a bit Hitlerish to me.

    You sound very immature or not very intelligent or both.

    I can understand someone having a preference but refusing to date someone because they have brown eyes and you might have brown eyed babies is wack.

    And even worse you say you'd be ok with a brown eyed baby but only if your man had blue eyes because you tried your best to have a brown eyed baby.

    Get those adoption papers ready so you can give up your child when it has brown eyes.

    You are letting your unreasonable fears and low self worth negatively effect your life and your future baby's life.

    Pretty stupid.

    How are you going to feel when your blue eyed man cheats on you with a brown eyed girl and has a brown eyed baby with her?

    Or even worse cheats on you with a blue eyed girl and has a blue eyed baby with her - EVERYTHING YOU WANT TO BE AND WANT YOUR CHILD TO BE.

    In the future technology will allow you to choose your baby's eye color, etc.

    Maybe it's a good idea you don't give birth until then ;)

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    • krh90

      I was 22 and single when I posted this, it has been four years!!!! Cut me some slack...... besides I am now happily married to the man of my dreams, we have been married for 13 months now:) Coincidentally, he has blue eyes, but that is not why I married him, I really don't care what color our childrens eyes will be anymore, I will always love them no matter what:)

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      • Sweet :)

        So you realize you were being immature and retarded!

        Yay.

        Glad things are going well for you.

        I guess this site isn't very popular because I'm often seeing older posts without realizing it.

        Anyway thanks for the reply even though it was 4 years ago!

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  • I have black eyes but I am a sith lord. Chances of your baby being born a Jedi are high. He will succumb to the darkness eventually and his blue eyes will turn black.

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  • Celeste

    So what if the guy of your dreams wouldn't want you because of your eye color?I understand it's common, but there are ways to preselect a babie's eye genetic coding[if it's legal, thats another issue entirley] and choose their eye color.btw, my eyes are gray-blue, but if i fall in love with a brown-eyed guy, i'll say screw you genetics, im gonna go find happiness! [ps: my dad's parents had brown eyes, he was born with blue]

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  • But why?

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  • JoethePlayerz

    You are fucked up. WHAT if your baby WANTS brown eyes? Do you think your baby is gonna like the idea of not having beautiful brown eyes 'like mum'? Cleverest thing you would do right away is jump into bed with the next brown-eyed guy you find and make 'baby' happy!

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  • flashinglights

    I don't really think that is normal - in fact a lot of people prefer brown eyes because they are often so deep and beautiful or really really sweet.
    You should love a guy and yourself not to mention your baby for who they are - not for something so trivial as eye colour.

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  • Come on - you love a guy & your baby for who they are not their eye colour! Don't yoiu think you are making too big a fuss about your brown eyes? Look at all the songs written about big beautiful brown eyes!

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  • wazup132

    dont let an eye color stop you from living your life or liking someone, there is much more important things in life than someones eye color

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