I can't cum while getting fingered or eaten out or having sex! help?!

77% Normal
8 Comments

Okay, I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months. And, he's fingered me and eaten me out countless times. And, we've had sex 5 times. Well, out of doing aaalll those things, I've NEVER came!! And, he tries and tries to make me cum! Like, wehen he fingers me, he does it for a long time and does it hard, slow, fast, everything to try to make me cum, but i never do! I mean, it feels sooo good but yet, i don't cum. And i wish i knew why i don't. I feel bad sometiems bcuz i know he wants me to, but I never do. ): Ugh, someone please help me and give me tips and stuff to try to make me cum! Thanks!

Voting Results
77% Normal
Based on 178 votes (137 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 8 )
  • latoriam32
    13 years ago

    Some women can only cum by clitoris stimulation. Try having sex doggy style, and reach back and rub your clit. You may have an awesome orgasm!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ^ This doesn't always work. I'm not very good at masturbation without a toy but my man knows just how to make me cum.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • Satanic_Cereal
    10 years ago

    It could be all the pressure on you that makes it not work. It could also be, that he focuses too much on "getting to work", instead of on making you feel aroused/ excited. Without a feeling of excitement. Ie, If someone just started rubbing me, and hoping I'll have an orgasm after a few minutes- I don't think it can work. Most people learn, from porn, to just "get to work" sexually.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • peterr
    10 years ago

    I could easily eat you out and you will cum.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • crazy..bob
    13 years ago

    all i can say is good luck and try the G-spot.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Exa
    13 years ago

    so, do you mean cum as a simple orgasm or female ejaculation? the latter takes a bit of practice to gain clearly visible results. It also is directly linked to the g-spot, which is located a couple inches in on the anterior wall, it feels like the roof of your mouth. it responds to pressure, and is best stimulated with a finger making the "come hither" gesture. Some notice better results from a pumping action, however, but it is more rough than the first method. always start at the most gentle, and work your way up to your comfort zone, otherwise you risk injury.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Comm0nSense
    13 years ago

    only some girls cum right? or do all girls always cum when they orgasm?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • normalsnotnormal
    13 years ago

    masturbate. learn your own body. teach him.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -1
    -1