I can't cum

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I've entered my first sexual relationship since my marriage and I'm admittedly having a good time. Here's me issue though; I can't orgasm. I enjoy myself when I'm with her but can't finish myself off.

When I was with my wife I never used condoms as she was on the pill and until the end I thought we were monogamous (bit of a sore point still best leave t alone) but now I'm back to condoms and I'm having this problem for the first time ever.

I don't know if it is there fault however. They are the factor I'm focusing on but it could still be something else. A mental block of some sort or a physical issue with me or even her I suppose but I doubt that she seems to get on fine. I don't know.

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago

    I think you are having a mental issue with your new lover...

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  • Gspyder
    8 years ago

    Yeah, its the condoms. Once you get used to going bareback its really hard to readjust. Good luck

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    • ews
      8 years ago

      Good advice. Can you stop using condoms?

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      • Gspyder
        8 years ago

        Yeah, if you use something else like the pill.

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