I can't bring myself to tears when people die.

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When my grandpa died, when my uncle died, when I thought my grandma died (mix up with my aunt's name, both same first and last names). grandma is pretty much I person I love the most in the world.
But I can cry on other occasions, one time I was thinking on how unfair somethings reflect on my life, job, school, and parents.
I feel really sad when they die, sometimes even paralyzed/paused in disbelief for few minutes.
I know men do not cry much, but it feels good to let it out. btw I am a grown man.

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  • A-perfect-circle
    13 years ago

    When my dad died when I was 11 I couldn't cry for at least a year but man when I finally did, it helped ALOT

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  • gaelicwolf
    14 years ago

    That's fine...people handle grief in different ways. I cry when I'm angry at myself for things I did or didn't do. But I didn't cry at my grandmother's funeral earlier this year.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    I think you are a closet homosexual. Honestly I do. This makes you feel more manly and less like a nancy-boy. I am right, am I not?

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  • CrassViper
    12 years ago

    I think its worse when people fake tears than when they're just expressing their emotions. At least your uncle or aunt or whatever will know how you actually feel about them before they go to hell. lol

    ...but no, even if you loved them and you aren't crying, it doesn't matter. Just be yourself.

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