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I think I can't be motivated. I don't know how to work hard.. I just can't I guess, all I wanna do is escape from reality. Though it won't change anything. When im seeking for advice,they will give judgements.
Motivation comes and goes, and is never going to get you the results you want out of life. What you're talking about is self-discipline: it's a skill that you have to train, and it only comes from pain.
Hitting the gym, for example, is hard until you discipline yourself to the point where it's easy to go and hard not to.
You're probably addicted to whatever it is that you do to escape reality, hence your inability to get motivated.
Though it's not the best approach, and it can waste years or decades of a person's life; it sounds like you're the type that needs hit rock bottom first, a place in your life that's so low that it pushes you to change. How? Basically continue on your path and see how far it goes. However, even that's not guarantee to work.
by seeing you on here i can tell already you're not the motivated type lmao. and your question isn't even a question either. damn dat motivation is real. bro you the best.