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ok so i dont mean to sound like a bitch and brag about my looks but guys tell me all the time im really pretty. I get asked out alot but everytime i do it takes me forever to pick yes or no. I feel so bad cause usually the guys take it as a no when really im just looking at every option. I really want a relationship but idk how to go about it.
same.
it's like i want everything to be PERFECT.. both with personality and looks. but you'll never get it. recently, i started dating a guy who is kind of chubby (not in a horrible way) and also is a bad kidder.. haha. but for some reason, i still like him :)
Is being asked out the same as having a relationship (i.e. romance)? No. I don't think so at all.
Being asked out is how you check out the prospects & possibilities & THEN decide to start a relationship. You will never have a relationship if you don't start.
The concept is called DATING: you go to a movie, a restaurant, an event. You get to know the person. There is little or no sexual pressure. And you can date more than one person, because that is what dating is about. It is social. It is circulating.
And out of those dates someone may become special to you. You can't expect someone to be special to you just cause they ask you out.
Dating is how you go about finding a romantic relationship.
well maybe choose someone that actualy does feel for u and not just want in your pants which duh obvious thats what all of them want and if u choose to go by one thats an asshole dont blame anyone for your choice choose someone that hasnt asked u but does like u
Yea, sounds like your not a slut. Its a good thing you do this, most pretty girls wouldnt takeba minute to decide.
Well it's definitely better that you weigh your options than to just jump into a relationship so I'd say keep doing what your doing and if they don't wait their not worth it.