I can’t stop thinking about him

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I don’t know what to do, I was seeing someone and it fizzled out said he wasn’t ready, I’ve been dating other boys but I can’t stop thinking about him. I haven’t spoke to him since he said that... but I have him on snapchat and Facebook, he’s confused me, but we have the same profession so it would be easy to relate to him. but I don’t know if it’s weird to just start talking as a friend again? Yeah i fancy him... but I don’t want to start snapchatting if it’s going to hurt chances of him coming back.

Yet if I snapchat, he may start talking again one day. Even if it’s just friendly chat.

Snapchat him when you Snapchat others 6
Leave him alone let him come to you 5
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  • LornaMae
    5 years ago

    Ok, this time it's GOTTA be 3-date girl. If I'm mistaken, I apologize in advance.

    Leave him alone, forget the "let him come to you" part. He is not coming back and he is not at all interested in having anything with you. You are living a whole love affair in your head. It WILL pass. But you have to let it go.

    If this isn't you, then I don't have an opinion. Good luck.

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  • BlindSpot
    5 years ago

    I also don't know what to do

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Let it be.

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    • IrishPotato
      5 years ago

      ♪ Speaking words of wisdom ♪

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        😉

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    "I'm not ready for a relationship," can mean exactly what the words say, or it can be used as a tactful way to reject someone who you feel nothing for and can't imagine ever feeling anything for.

    One thing's pretty clear: unless you have psychic super-powers, constantly thinking about him isn't going to change his mind about you.

    Constantly popping up on his screen is also unlikely to have the results you hope for.

    If you subtly remind him that you're still around occasionally, he might reconsider. However, I think you'd be wise to accept that he's rejected you and move on.

    Even though I don't know you and I don't know him, I can guarantee that he is _not_ the only man in the world that you could be happy with. However, if you remain fixated on him, you might just discover that he is the one guy in the world who has the power to make you feel miserable and lonely.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      The thing is I’ve dated after him, I’m still looking and getting out, I had a while where I forgot about him, then he’s just come back.
      I won’t bombard him, I’ll just send him a snap every so often as long as it doesn’t do more harm than good?
      I believe he isn’t ready, I know it can also be an excuse. I have a date coming up. But I can’t fight what my head and heart is saying.

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      • bfus
        5 years ago

        If you want to stop thinking about him, chatting and stalking his social media posts is only going to make it worse. The best thing to do is stop looking at his posts and stop initiating conversations

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