I broke the mirror cause i feel fucking ugly

Well, yes and no. Yes, it's normal to have "bad face days" when you just feel fugly, but it isn't a feeling that should affect how you live your life the way it seems to affect yours.

It might help to find some focus outside yourself, something deeper than looks. Volunteer to work at a home for the elderly, for example; you'll see the worth of people who have contributed so much more to the world than a pretty face. You could also help out at your local animal shelter; animals never judge. They're just happy for a little attention.

You say that you make an effort to be kind to other people; I recommend that you try the same tactics on yourself. Find the beauty, physical or otherwise, in yourself and cherish it. Say kind things to yourself. Compliment yourself for having great style or good hair or whatever you decide is your pride and joy.

Confuse their senses and get some bomb perfume that makes you smell like a $5000 whore. People will respect you.

Sorry to tell you, but beauty on the inside is only really worth something if you have beauty on the outside. Harsh, I know. An example is that you don't see many attractive people with "beauty on the inside", not the outside people. It's sad, but I'm not going to lie.

Win any argument? You're rattling my debating chains, but I'll let that slip by. ;)

Normal. I know for a fact that outside beauty and appearances are what people focus on. There's no doubt about that yes people will say the ideal theory it's what's in the inside that counts however that one takes effort to get someone to even APPROACH you to begin with then the time for them to know you to then be attracted to you, and even then they might be resentful or secretly wish you were physically attractive. This is especially true for men when asked what they look for in a partner the majority would say physical beauty/attractiveness.

possibly some good news for you though. You are transitioning from high school to college? High school is not like college St all and you will see.the whole pretty girls Jocks crowd is not there anymore alot of them are nerds :-)

This happens a lot when I watch TV and there's perfect people, we all don't have classic movie star looks, I doubt your ugly, I bet your not even bad looking your just not perfect. From the description I would date you.
You didn't mention you were fat or anything so add some points on the ten scale.

Bad self image is really common, especially among women, but it can still be really difficult. I've struggled with it for years. It sounds to me that it's at a really unhealthy level for you, so I suggest you talk to a doctor or therapist about it. You're not alone in this, and you deserve help.

Well, I think you should stop worrying about what you look like. People are visually stimulated, yes, but I always felt like we put too much energy and importance into beauty. What is the importance of beauty? There isn't any. There are so many more aspects to life than looking good, and if you put so much energy into being beautiful, you'll never really be happy. Why do you care so much if you look ugly? And even if you think you're ugly, everyone's opinions are different, so I'm certain there are plenty of people who find you beautiful. Just look at all the other aspects of life, before turning to whether you are attractive or not. Because life goes on...no matter what you look like, and you should enjoy it for what is. Ugly or not.

I get that same feeling too. But then I go onto IIN and whine about how ugly I am and everyone says stuff to cheer me up. It always makes me feel better. Maybe you could try that?

I bet you're beautiful just highly insecure- if you were "ugly" you'd be used to it by now. Either way, everybody has different tastes and everybody looks different from one another. If your not the typical hot girl it doesn't mean your ugly, and who gives a fuck? That means you have a chance at a life with awesome clever friends, true love and depth. Hot girls get old-their shallow husbands cheat on them and their friends hate them-they are more insecure than interesting looking pretty girls, like you. Your lucky if your not the typical hottie- you'd probably be a dumb-ass like "ItDuz" PS I am beautiful PPS So are you

And alot of beer goggles too did I mention that :-

Yeah I know what you mean, don't worry there are some open minded people out there that don't judge people on how they look, unfortunately not a lot though

You know, confidence helps a great deal in looking attractive.

And I bet you look great when you smile :I

Erhm, I know this may sound weird.
But do you have any form of social network or messenger outside IIN?
Sounds like you need a confidenceboost ^^

Change your thoughts, be more living towards yourself and take care of yourself and focus on the positive or possibly get a haircut or something, listen to yourself, you know what you need.

First of all you need to work on your self esteem and self confidence and in order for that to happen you really need to listen to your needs and wisdom... Everyone has felt this way at some point but you should never not for a second compare yourself to other human beings, but instead focus on yourself and your own comforts. You're problem is that you ate uncomfortable in your own skin, it's within you to know what to do to change this, without CHANGING yourself.

Well yh ur right they get to know you at first but thats only within the first week after that you meet everyone else and then is your time to shine and im guessing you have a beutiful personality and im sure you will shine just be positive and friendly throughout which im sure you already are :-)

why cant you be the odd one out then? whey cant you be different its not a bad life really, you could meet others n the same boat