I barely talk to anyone, ever, and i am ok with it

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I have no friends whatsoever. I do have a boyfriend, but we are long distance... we talk on the phone every night but only see each other once every few weeks.

In person, during the last... 4 weeks? I have only, in person, spoken to my parents. NOBODY else, face to face in that time.

Including phonecalls, I have spoken to, in 4 weeks, my parents, my boyfriend, and a friend of my boyfriend. Besides my boyfriend on those rare occasions, I never hang out with anyone. I go to college (Go back the 26th) and have no friends there. I just sit around by myself and listen to music or go on my laptop- I avoid the cafeteria and lounge to avoid interaction.

My parents say there is something wrong with me, because this "anti-social" personality has been all my life. I have never have/had a sleepover when I was little, and maybe went to two birthday parties at that time, and have not hung out with anyone other than my boyfriend (and ex awhile back) since... middle school? I can say I am just not a people person, and I am fine. Though I get told there is something wrong with me. IIN

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  • Shrunk
    12 years ago

    If youre ok with that then I dont see the problem, as long as you don't hate people or want to murder them or anything like that than youre not really antisocial, just asocial, which is normal as long as you dont feel lonely or afraid of others. I am like that too but I dont have a bf and it get lonely some times, but I dont really feel like making friends just to socialise, they have to be very special for me to trust them. Some people are just like that, introverts usually, you should explain it to your parents

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  • tigerlilja
    12 years ago

    I'm the same way, and by my standards you seem completely normal. I'm beyond introverted, in fact I'm happiest when I don't have to interact with anyone at all. If you're truly happy this way, don't feel the need to change for anyone especially ones who feel you need to be "outgoing" to fit in

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  • Pisslan616
    12 years ago

    How did you meet your boyfriend?

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    • purpleattitude56
      12 years ago

      yeah...

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  • NormalIsOverratedBeANinja
    11 years ago

    I love being alone, whenever I can. People are a waste of time. I can think so much better when I'm on my own. Just give me a snack and internet access, I'll be perfectly happy not to talk to you for weeks.

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  • WildUtopia
    12 years ago

    I'm the same way...except I need a boyfriend...or jjust one friend...maybe like you to talk about philosophical thoughts or pure randomness x)

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  • thecoldhardtruth
    12 years ago

    Don't worry about what others say. If that's the life you want to live that's fine.
    Whatever floats your boat :)

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  • lucas1539
    12 years ago

    There's np as long as ur ok with it and

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  • Techfreak14
    12 years ago

    This is how I was until I started getting myself out there. Even if you like being alone, it is still good to have a friend or 2 you can talk too. I'm not saying you have to go too parties and all that but it might be good for you and a friend maybe go to a resturant and chat a little bit. Don't get me wrong, I do love my alone time. But alone all the time can be deppressing. Try to talk too people and make a couple of friends. Be confident and let your fun playful personality shine because trust me, after I started coming out of my shell I never loved it more. I was making so many friends and just loving life. Just try to make a few friends and thank me later. :)

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  • jermath35
    12 years ago

    I can entertain myself for days... Who needs people they all act wrong anyway these days...

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