I ask myself ?

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Is it normal? That I'm 21 and worry about the world. I worry that I'll never have any friends and that I'll live to regret anything. I feel overwhelmed with the world. Never had anyone, worried no one will want me cause of it. I'm very shy and find it hard to put myself out there. I go out and when I see guys I find it hard to look even with normal people, making eye contact is hard. But I look at guys and ask myself 'is he the one? Could I be with him? Will I spent my life with him' I'm sick of waiting for life to flow, but I need to but how??

I even do it for normal people cause I'm so desperate for friends 'could we be friends? Is she like me?' I ask myself, paint a picture in my head. It's driving me daft.
When someone talks to me though I can talk and it boosts my confidence a lot.

Just seem to have lost it all. I can't go to new groups on my own I worry and the thoughts overwhelm me.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    You need to join some activities that interest you. Almost anything you like to do, others also enjoy, so there must be a club or group about.
    Fishing, kiting, hang gliding, hiking, biking, an orchestra, scuba diving, cooking or even sewing. Join for fun and you'll find it quite easy to meet people and make friends because you'll have that one thing, at the very least, in common with everybody in the group.
    I'd steer clear of night clubs and bars.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I have joined some clubs, but I am obsessing so much, and becoming so lost in my thoughts I worry i'll never have anyone and regret my life so much.

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  • peterr2
    8 years ago

    You need me. I will share times with you and love you unconditionally.

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  • theseeker
    8 years ago

    I'm also kind of like that. It used to be when people tried to talk to me, I would get extremely nervous and just wanted to escape. I couldn't converse with others, and definitely couldn't start conversations. I learned the more situations I was in, the less nervous I became.

    As harsh as it may seem, you will have to immerse yourself in your fear. Otherwise, nothing will change for you. You CAN go to new groups. You just haven't realized it yet. The hardest part is taking that first step. At first it will be hard. You will likely have some very bad experiences, but eventually it gets easier. You probably will never be completely comfortable with it, but you'll be able to the things you thought you couldn't.

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