I approached a girl today. what do you think??

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Im 19 never had a girlfriend in my life. Never had sex. Never even kissed a girl. Im getting lonelier and lonelier everyday. People told me to start approaching girls. So over the last year or so, i approached MANY girls. I didnt get anywhere.

Anyway, heres my most recent expierience..
Theres this girl in my science class who is soo hot. Shes a 10, without a doubt. I never heard her say a word, she is very quiet and honestly looks very mean & unnapproachable. After our test, in the hallway she was waiting for her friend in another class... i actually had the balls to start a conversation. I was a little nervous (I may have even looked stupid). But I did get some words out of her. But she doesnt smile. She has a low, soft/serious voice. I asked her questions about the test, her major, etc, etc. She mostly gave me 2-3 word responses. She did not seem too interested. Like i said, she didnt smile. The conversation lasted 2-3 minutes untill her friend came out and she left without saying goodbye. Not sure what to think about this. I expect to be rejected/ignored like always. But id love to get with her. What do you think? Any advice? Thank you

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    Well, you've taken one of the hardest steps (breaking the ice). Next step is to strike on a topic of conversation that interests her. Step after that is to make her laugh. At that point, you're potentially interesting and potentially funny. You're potentially a boyfriend, and this is the point where it all gets worked out (or not... if she's not interested, she's not interested).

    What I'm saying in your case is that it's too early to say and you've got to keep making the effort.

    P.S. If you mess up, don't keep pushing it. I messed up lots. It's painful but it's a learning process.

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  • Francophile22
    11 years ago

    If the body language says "mean and unapproachable" and you continue pursuing in the face of those odds, what kind of fool does that make you? Hell, I've been turned down A LOT by women who liked me a lot. But they have to be approachable first, ya know?

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago

    She may not be interested until she gets to know you or you get to know her. If you consider her a "10" and you get rejected, it should be easier for you to get a girl who is not a "10." You need to congratulate yourself for approaching a top notch stallion. By the way, do not tell a girl you are a virgin or never had a girlfriend until she is your girlfriend or until you have had sex lol. It may ruin everything.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Watch simple pick up on youtube lol that would be a great confidence booster for you. I have no idea why some of these girls give their numbers. Depending on your age, try picking up girls outside a different college?

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  • DudeUrFuglyXox
    11 years ago

    shes either very shy or rude, maybe try again or see how she reacts to other people to see if it was just you she was acting that way to, maybe she just has a quiet personality

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    11 years ago

    She ain't interested don't waste your time. Dude, seriously hit the gym, get ripped, wear some boss clothes and above all BE CONFIDENT.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      In other words, act like a self absorbed douche who only concentrates on appearance?

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      • squeallikeasacofpigs
        11 years ago

        Hahhahaahaha, you're pathetic

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        • [Old Memory]
          11 years ago

          Not really. I'm a married 24 year old US Army veteran. Have fun at Hollister paying $500 for a shirt made in India so you can attract women. God knows your personality wont.

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          • squeallikeasacofpigs
            11 years ago

            Hahahahahah, you're such a self absorbed douchebag

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      • PapzBSlim
        11 years ago

        Lol I know what you mean. Unfortunately most of the "10" girls love douche-bag guys. He should possibly buy a Lambo.

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        • [Old Memory]
          11 years ago

          That's why it's fun to turn the "10s" down. Did it in high school a lot. Take um' down a peg.

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          • PapzBSlim
            11 years ago

            Lol of course, I agree. I couldn't say that I would turn them down but I would "use" them for a night or week and then drop the whole deal.

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