I annoy my ex constantly!

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So me and my ex broke up in July, because we had a pregnancy scare and once we found out I wasn't pregnant he realized he couldn't handle a relationship yet or the consequences with it. Needless to say we remained friends after we planned to meet up someday but he never responded...so I was hanging out with one of my exes and he found out and got pretty mad about it but now my ex and him are friends and he never answers me back. I call I text I message and he eventually blocked me on facebook. I'm leaving a lot of detail out but I've been texting him for nearly 2 months and he never responds (and I'm not blocked) am I crazy? Is it normal to do this because you want answers and some kind of clarity?

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    I think you need to leave this guy alone. I also suspect you do a little too much talking to your exes. Your exes are your exes for a reason, they're not your friends. Looks like your two exes have been probably gossiping about you behind your back like a couple of hens. Like I said before, exes aren't friends.

    You've obviously been through quite the traumatic ordeal, and it looks like you're having a hard time letting go. You need to let go, and move on with your life. If I were you I'd take a serious break from dating entirely, stop stalking the most recent ex, cease contact with the old ex, and get some counseling to work through the emotional ordeal from the pregnancy scare. Whatever you don't ever have sex without a condom again.

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    • Flutist_101
      7 years ago

      We used a condom....and apparently he was traumatized of being a father so young..

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Well, it sounds like he's not the one for you. No offense, but you really dodged a bullet on this one, because the last thing you'd ever need is to have a baby with this guy or someone like him.

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  • pantychaffe
    7 years ago

    Move on dummy. Its over. Let him live. Go find a new guy to bother. Ug chicks like you need to cluck off blowing up your EX phone. Key word,EX, aka exit

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Nobody ugly it's called wanting closure don't disrespect me, how bout just don't comment?

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  • Flutist_101
    7 years ago

    Yes I understand I just wish I had some closure as to what I did wrong that made him stand me up that day and never speak to me again

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    • McBean
      7 years ago

      Honestly, closure can be very hard to find. Sometimes the only closure we get is a clue that something is wrong.

      Rose is right. Take a break before you get back into the game again. Your mind will sort it out in its own way and on its own timeline.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      Sounds like he did something wrong, not you. Sometimes it's impossible to get "closure" (whatever the fuck that means anyway) and you can't make that happen if the other person won't do what you want.

      Sorry, but you really have no choice but to move on and don't look back.

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      • Flutist_101
        7 years ago

        Closure is basically when you want answers to clear your conscience, especially if things went left and you have no idea why. I haven't had any sexual action or relationships since and I don't plan to for awhile.

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