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I am a 20 year old female and have not lost my virginity because I am waiting to be married first. I think that is the reason I am still single and can't find a boyfriend while many of my friends are married already or have a great relationship. I have never even been kissed is that what's keeping me single or what?
You'll be fine. Any good man will be completely understanding and happy meet a nice woman who would rather wait for marriage first. If they aren't Then your probably better off alone for a bit longer. Don't feel pressured to get married soon just because your friends are. The right guy WILL come along and you'll be much happier if you waited patiently
*pictures a gate flying open and stampede of cattle with V is for virgin branded on each of their back sides*
I don't really recommend doing this. You want to discover sexual compatibility with partners as well as all other types of compatibility, before you get married. If you're going to spend your life with someone, you want to figure out if you're really compatible people, and sexuality is a huge part of that.
kinda....from a males perspective? most guys wont date you if you dont have sex with them. but they're just shallow asses. i personally dont beleave in that marriage thing. if its religious i understand but if its not dont wait!!! go lose that shit pronto guys dont like virgins for one reason...we dont have that emotional connection when having sex maybe when we get older and more nuture we will but currently most guys cant connect during sex. you try having something hard between your legs all day...theres no emotions just blue balls we wont wait for a girl...go on christian mingle you will find guys that are willing to wait there but what ever your doing now isnt working.......PS it hurts a little at first but god never said anything about butt stuff... most guys will worship you if you let them stick it there!!!! use a dildo first so you can get used to it lol im bi
That's what they invented the YesNoMaybe chart for.
For anyone who hasn't heard of it or thinks it's called something else, you write a ton of questions about sexual interests and the like and photocopy it. Both of you say yes/maybe to everything you wanna try and no to what you don't, and then swap. Now you know if it'll meet both your expectations. Plus it's a less awkward way to ask stuff like how they'd deal with unplanned pregnancy.
No I'm waiting also and I have found a man that also wants to wait and even when I become weak and beg for it he tells me no it means to much to you we are just getting into it after you will be sad we are still waiting
That's totaly normal, tons of people do it. I think most of the people who are saying it's not normal are just trolling.