I am twenty years old and i am a virgin.

dude dont worry i was exactly like you a few years ago, i lost my virginity when i was 21, and to tell you the truth sex is overrated anyway, i think it is better for you to wait for that someone special rather than trying to get in to the pants of every girl that walks past you. dont stress mate it is perfectly normal!

i'm 21 virgin-girl years old and going to be 22 this year. what you've done is very good. i've been looking for someone who is virgin. wish i could lose my big V to a virgin like you.

I think I just found a clone of myself haha. As you now know, I'm in the same boat and I wouldn't consider it normal. Most guys lose their virginity before 20, but why should we care about them? The problem with this is society. I think a lot of guys in high school and maybe even in college want to get laid just to say they got laid so they won't be considered "weirdos." There are also a lot of movies out their that depict virgin guys as socially inept, but they're mad wrong. I definitely want to lose it to my girlfriend (if I had one).

Its crazy what you are asking. Sure its normal, i think people like you are born for real relationships so loose virginity when you are 100% sure in your decision

I can fix that.
-Rape.

HOLY SHIT THIS IS OLD. YOu must be 23-24 now and maybe a virgin still? Anyways Im 20 yrs old and u pretty much described me. Except I smoke weed and jack off to porn. Best feeling ever. Getting high

Most human desires are defined by social disputes. When you do not know, do not want. why a large majority finds it odd an older virgin.

Good for you! It's so stupid that people give away their virginity to just get rid of it. It's so sad

Aww. You actually have guilt. You're one of very few guys who posess this amazing thing called moral. Find a girl that loves you and she'll be grateful to give you your first time. ^__^

Two of my male friends are virgins still. One is 24, and the other is 26. The 26 year old has had oral sex, but he's waiting to have full intercourse for ... well, I guess someone he hasn't met yet, right?
Your virginal status may not be THE norm, but it IS normal.

First off, it seems that you have an adversion as far as sex is concerned. To feel that bad after viewing porn.

The acid test for me has always been: am I hurting another person? Am I hurting myself? Am I putting myself or my sex partner at risk? Have I been totally honest about where things stand as far as the relationship goes? That puts some integrity into what could otherwise be disasterous. And, waiting can be a great thing. Yet, a number of people don't really know what they are waiting for.

It shows that your from a later generation. My parents didnt have sex in bathrooms when they were 16. They had sex when they got married. None of this casual sex thing.

its normal but stop confusing sex with love, its probably a good thing your a virgin. you dont have to be in a relationship with someone to enjoy sex, so long as your safe. i think you got a little growing up to do, so do what you gotta do in the bathroom until you figure it out.

Thats normal, you're definitely not the only guy out there like this. I was 19 when I got my first girlfriend, it lasted for 3 months then that was it. I also lost my virginity to her. I am now 20, still have not dated anyone since her as i have trouble meeting someone. I also believe in NOT sleeping around, I think its disgusting and disrespectful. Best of luck to you in finding someone!

i agree with Sebastian19 (24035)
and well i kinda feel the same way although im not a virgin, but i guess i could be now lol
i went through a stage in my life where i just slept with anyone and f*cked around, i just didnt care and afterwards i always felt bad, i was just using myself and abusing mybody and others

i guess ive had a new light now, i dont regret anything ive done becuae its made me the person i am today.
i no longer drink, smoke or take drugs, i dont feel the need to do any of those in order to have a good time, most people think theres something wrong with me?

most my female friends say im a really sweet guy and i should be with someone better, but all every girl does is f*ck me over and im still alone and wanting that soul mate i guess.... i thought i found her, well i still feel she is the one, but i just can no longer trust her, she never told me the truth and always acused me of cheating one her, i still think she cheated on me, all the facts are there to say she did and even now, she called me up not long ago asking for advice about some guys shes f*cking, i met him at a party ages ago and she was flirty with him then, so flirty she didnt even notice me :'(
but she told me she put of sleeping with him cos she was thinking of me, and never actually said she'd slept with him, instead that she'd done something stupid...
she never took my advice which was to not see the guy for a while until she sorted her head out and fugured out what these feeling were. instead she's going out with him, even though she broke up with me because she didnt want a boyfriend, and told me on the phone she doesnt want a boyfriend she just wants a bit of fun...? :/ women! lol

What you need to do is find out if you really want sex.Some people are not into sex unless its with a life partner. You are a unique person and when you are ready to make the commitment to have sex you will just know.
Finding the right person will make it all the more enjoyable when you do. So be strong and keep on doing what makes you feel good.

Uuuuh yea it's completely normal, I can't even believe your asking this question, lol. It really shows that you have a lot more respect for yourself, and especially women. I know you probably weren't looking forward into an 18 year old giving you advise on what's normal, but what the hell, you are only two years older than me, lol. I'm a virgin, and plan on being one until I meet the right person that I want to be with for the rest of my life. I got out of a relationship that lasted for 4 years, and now ended, but I didn't loose my virginity because I had a girlfriend, I wanted to wait until we got married because I felt that it's the right thing to do, no matter how long it would take. I just graduated on June 5th and in my 4 years of being in high school, uuh yea same here dude, never drink, smoke, done drugs, sex, or party. You are just a very clear minded man, and I've come to realize that women like to meet a guy that is a virgin, depending if you are a good looking guy. But then again you don't seem to have a problem with loosing your virginity, it seems that you are trying to loose your virginity at the right time and with the right person in a relationship. Well, can't really help you with that, I mean in my own opinion I believe that no one is considered the right person. If you really want to loose your virginity than just find some that you can relate to.