I am tired of getting into a relationship.

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I'm a lady who got cheated by my exes. The latest was about 4 months ago. After all the efforts done, why men seem not to get satisfied?! I feel now like all men sucks to be in a relationship (and I've never been or never will try a same sex). Maybe I should just sort on ending up an old maid? Seriously I am f#ck*ng exhausted!

Dear is it normal peeps, I'm ready for your comments and suggestions. Thanks in advance!

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Based on 47 votes (37 yes)
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  • chaky92
    11 years ago

    I know there are good guys because I am One, I would never cheat, not cause I'm a saint or anything but because I'm better than an animal. u will find a good one, don't give up

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      How sweet! Thanks dear! I really just need a fresh breather.

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    • chaky92
      11 years ago

      Take.some time to be alone tho

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  • woman1986
    11 years ago

    Yes its normal to be tired of relationships. Am also tired because my past relationships were disastrous and i dont think am willing to take the risk anymore, besides, there are very few men am interested and vice versa at university.
    I don't always agree with people who say girls intentionally go after jerks. Its not like we "love" to suffer . Its just very hard to find the right person, and often charming men are very good at making you fall in love with them. But yes its our fault if we stay too long with them. Am just content right now to make guy friends its much easier atm.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Right, the logic is in your statement dear. :)

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  • mercede
    11 years ago

    its your mind telling you that you need fulfillment more then what a man can bring you at this point. Try to better yourself. If you start living for youslef rather then to please a man you will eventually come to a point in your life where you have gotten everything you want in life to make you happy by yourself...then a man will come along and see that. He will think damn this women has it all, and you will find one that will work to keep you happy with him. SO the roles will be reversed. You probably put the man you get in relationships before yourself...dont do that

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    • Its_Called_Love
      11 years ago

      This^

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Halleluia, Mercede! This is the best and most sensible comment I've ever had! You hit it right. That's the feeling I cannot make up in words as my present situation. I thank thee!

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  • saddenedunicorn
    11 years ago

    I'm tired of starting relationships. Can I get a remote control for life? First I'd like to rewind and then, fast forward.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      If life works like that, I'd buy dozens of universal remote for women from home tv shopping!

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    Well, I'm single and lovin it, so I guess it's normal.

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    • GlassDarkly31
      11 years ago

      Nothing wrong with that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Good for you. I like now being single but I kinda feel that I'm now a man-hater (involving relationships). For now I see other male prospects as for friend materials, nothing more.

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  • Racks_on_racks
    11 years ago

    Yeah I'd say it's normal. Having to tend to someone else's wants and needs is emotionally draining, especially if you feel like your getting nothing in return. I say concentrate on being independent and let the guys come to you. And when u feel like a new relationship is about to start, try to have no expectations about it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Yeah probably. Right now I am not expecting even the slightest possibility to be in a relationship. Just felt totally drained with those bastards. BTW thanks for the comment.

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