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I have never gone outside my house for any reason because I had no friends. But I am considering it because I am so lonely. Should I go?
Don't listen to him, going outside is the best possible think you can do for yourself right now. I am not a doctor but I have always found the outdoors to be freeing. Also, you seem depressed and that will probably not improve unless you have some fun. Be happy, interact, it can only help :). Humans need other humans, and with the possible exeption of a robber, you are not going to find any in your lonely joys! ;)
same thing happened to me a few years ago. had no reason to go out for nearly 4 years. really fucked me up, got agoraphobia, you probably have that a bit too. but go out, as soon as possible, things are much better with friends and being outside.
Go outside, people are mostly good. Meet new people, make friends, go to parties, see a baseball game, see a movie, see a play. All things you should do, just don't become a Red Sox fan. Everyone posting comments here is a real person, we don't seem so bad do we, no of course we don't. Remember, every day is a new day, that will never happen again, so grab life by the horns, and make the most of it. Or at least by some extra cable packages, a bunch of game systems, and start playing world of war craft. Just kidding, go out there, and enjoy yourself, the world is a beautiful place.
Don't listen to the rude comments, and i think it could be normal in some cases.
And i think you should go out into the world to make some friends!
Good Luck!
-Cami :]
This is not a joke. The problem the young man or lady is experiencing is very normal. I was just like him or her for 49 of my 50 years of life. I do home based work and my brother would do the exchangings for me, {finished for not finished}. But just 4 years previous I excepted Christ as my Saviour and with His love and help he made it very easy for me to go out into the world. My friend, I would like to state why don't you talk this horrible fear over with God, He will give you the help you need to over come this fear.
lol u guys are weak im 22 and have been at my computer on the internet 24/7 since the age of 15. I dropped school never had a friend went on government assistance at 17 to rent a small room in a rooming house broke off contact with my parents.
havnt gone outside for years except to get food and thats hell everytime i shake and tremble when i have to pay the cashier and standing in line im sweating and my chest is about to explode. so my life is over what u have is nothing.
get out dragons dont exist anymore we throw laptops at them and they go inside like pokemanzz most of them are in WoW now do not fear for the world comes in peace...... just avoid the zombies
You need to GO. Like, now. Stop hiding, stop being so lonely. People aren't gonna come to you.
i had this problem the summer of '08, all i did was sit on my ass and eat junk food, but when school came along i made friends and became more social
i dont go out much not on my own i am in doors on lap top all day i hate going out i hav to be in a good mood to go out on my own or hav a spliff i now lots of people who what go out
honetsly go outside, force yourself even if you dontr like it, the only reason you wont like it is because you are not uset to it, honestly your life will change for the better. It did with me and i will never look back :) good luck matey and id love to be your friend you sound nice :)
the same thing happend to me about 5 years ago, i had no friends and was scared everything i was doing wasnt up to trend and people would laugh because i was always picked on at school. i just uset to go 2 school, go home and thats it stay at home like until it was school again, even in the 6 weeks holiday i would just be in all the time. awful stage of my life looking back, but at the time it was just 'normal' cos i didnt know anything different!
I know how you feel and the only advise I can offer you is what worked for me: see a therapist. You'll be much happier!
NO DONT GO OUTSIDE THE OZONE LAYER HAS GOTTEN WORSE OVER THE YEARS AND IT GIVES EVERYBODY SKIN CANCER!!!!!!!!!! ALSO THE WIND WILL KILL YOU!
i wouldnt go out if i were you. you're not missing much by staying in.. the planet is full of assholes and hassle.. as long as you get exercise and are not starving then you'll be fine. :)
how old are you? if you're older than...if your a fetus, that's okay. but seriously, how old are you?
Its not normal the sun is you friend go outside headass.lolz but go for real
Don't do it, all of the air outside is radioactive and causes instant death, were all inside too...
It would be a good idea to call a psychologist, talk over the phone. Then make an appointment as a good reason to get outside. Travel by taxi if this helps.
Then join a social group at church or local community group to make friends.
Do you have family that you can visit?
Vitamin D is actually a good vitamin to take if you're not in the sun.
You are allowed to be part of this world too.
yes u should discover the outside world don't isolate ur self ...the world it's not just the room where u living ...it's so much huge then u think ...good luck outside
GET OUT OF YOUR GODDAMN HOME!!!
There's lots of sexy people to meet ;D
go outside and just.. watch. observe. then become part of the outside world.
My suggestion would be to get either a hobby or a job (frankly I don't want to pay for you to sit on your ass in front if the computer all day), that way you have a reason to go out. That will lead to socialization, eventually friends and LIFE.
its normal to want to go outside, its not normal that you didnt figure that out within the first year of your life..