I am taking this to far......

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Hi I have been married for 13 months now, and it have not been all bad we have had our ups and down. Now we our having one of our down moment and I don't know what to do... Ok so here go me and my husband is not seeing eye to eye on how he handle his mother of his child. We have been together 9.5 years now, I have been dealing with this that long. I just get mad at the fact that they always talk when Im never around... I mean she always call when im at work and Im trying to figure out how she know when Im not around. But he don't see nothing wrong with what he doing because he is not cheating and he don't want her and I keep telling him it is more then 1 way to cheat...What im mad about is that he don't see nothing wrong with what he doing at all..... So ask you is this normal are iam looking to much into this

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    This is why I prefer not to date guys with kids. Less baggage and less drama is what I'm looking for in a relationship.

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    • BlackyHancock
      8 years ago

      Amen to that!

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      • snarkygirl
        8 years ago

        Can I get a witness! To be fair I haveba kid and u don't blame a guy if he doesn't want to date for that reason. I look at it this way: my job as a parent is to mess up my kid as little as possible and if someone doesn't want me and my kid both, were all better off not getting involved.

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  • Steve-2
    8 years ago

    Here deal is. Your grammar not good, yes? Work on grammar, you must, before post.

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    • Grimmfan
      8 years ago

      BTW Here deal is Mr Intellectual? Try here's the deal. Jerk!

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    • Grimmfan
      8 years ago

      Shut up Steve! Maybe she's from a different country than you. Go to that country, try to speak their language. Why you gotta be such a jerk?

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  • Caps90
    8 years ago

    You are being normal. It's not that you don't want them to talk to each other. You just don't want to feel like they are hiding something. When they never talk around you it makes them look suspicious. You just need to sit down and have a heart to heart with your husband. If there is no secrets then they shouldn't be acting secretive.

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    • Grimmfan
      8 years ago

      Exactly

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    They had a child together: it's not reasonable to expect them never talk to each other again. IF you haven't managed to make him change in more than 9 years, why are you still trying to? You're just banging your head on a brick wall: how about letting go of what you can't change?

    o each other again?

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  • elh03
    8 years ago

    at the time that i tried to change i felt like that i had no grounds bc i was just the girlfriend not the wife but now that im the wife i feel things should change it not like im asking to stop talking her no i was the one telling him they need to be more nicer to each other then what they were but now all asking for is to be apart of the convo every now and then not all the time bc that will just be to much

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  • elh03
    8 years ago

    just trying to sneak and write it

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  • elh03
    8 years ago

    sorry will rewrite it

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