I am so lonely

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I'm in my mid 20s, I have no friends, I have a job that pays well but I hate it, nobody at work likes me or wants to talk to me, I hate being stuck in a room for 8 hours every day, since it's in New York City on my break I just go outside and walk around the streets, I love wandering around watching people doing whatever and the sights and sounds of the city. I'm shy but I feel comfortable when I can fit into a crowd. I've never had a girlfriend but it never bothered me until I started working in the city. I see so many beautiful women every day on the city streets and on my commute to work and back home (I take the train and subway) that I can't help but feel physical pain for not being able to have a relationship with anyone. But I also feel terrible because I think I'm too boring and lame. There is nothing interesting about me. I do personally feel like a failure. I have no idea what I would ever talk about to any girl if she was my girlfriend. I'm also short and I feel insecure about that.

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    Do you have any interests?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Is there any activity that you might like to participate in? If so, there must be others who also enjoy it. That is where you will find like minded people. I'm positive that you can find a group or organization of those people, especially in NYC.
    Otherwise you could volunteer your time helping those less fortunate than you or at an animal shelter or even a zoo. There are just so many ways to meet people who share your ideas and ideals. Moping around alone is just counter productive.
    Take a chance. What have you got to lose?

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  • TheSailorOfTheSevenBasements
    8 years ago

    You think your life is lonely and boring? I'm a 69 year old balding man who is still a virgin, lives in a basement in his parents' house, has never had a job and owns a blow up doll 42 years my junior.

    It's so miserable that I have to pretend I'm living a good life while on IIN all day arguing with people 1/4 of my age.

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  • Samuelcarbon98
    8 years ago

    I always try to find hobbies and stuff i like to do

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  • Terryeo
    8 years ago

    Find a wall. Say, "hello" to it. Do that until you can easily say the word right out loud. Then turn on the TV and practice again and again until you can do that one thing easily. Then try out your new skill while facing toward a woman from about 100 feet away. Increase difficulty until someone actually gets what you say.

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  • Shayde30
    8 years ago

    Sometimes I feel like that too but you still have a lot of time (:.If you have any interests do it. There are so many ways you could and maybe if you coule so something maybe ou could meet a girl :P haha.You wouldn't what will happen but at least you enjoyed your life (:.Goodluck to you my friend

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  • usethedolltoshowuswereTGStouch
    8 years ago

    You have a job in New York City! Your the envy of billions, look on the bright side, and fuck your coworkers their probably dicks, and not the good kind.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    8 years ago

    Develop some hobbies, dude. Find an interest, a passion, join a club... my brother is the same way, he had a good job but was very lonely and he joined a car club and got really good with cars and now he has plenty of good friends. He couldn't find a girlfriend and I told him to go meet a girl at college, like, go to college for a bit dude and he has been with the girl he found at that college for the past 5 years. I mean, this dude is socially awkward as fuck but friendly and nice and it worked for him.

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