I am randomly thinking of my ex & i've been dating another guy 4 a yr

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August 2014 I broke up with my boyfriend because I cheated on him and no longer loved him anymore (after a year & a half of dating). He provided everything I could ever imagine because he was just so in love with me. However we just didn't have that connection. I didn't have that spark and I sorta never really did and was so scared to break up with him that I ended up cheating (I learned my lesson calm down). A few months later, I started dating my current bf he's fun, sweet, happy, and does a lot of things for me however he just isn;t a provider like my ex. Out of no where I am thinking about my ex. Am I vain or materialistic? Am I going through the nesting stage? Am I just regretful for what I did to him? I am very lost, I don't want this to affect my current relationship and I am scared to tell my current boyfriend that I am randomly thinking about my ex (it's been over 2 years that I've even seen him). btw I am 23. That might help. I guess maybe I just wish my current bf was more responsible and adult-like like my ex. I am very confused. Please help

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    That's probably all it is. I think it has less to do with your ex and more wit what you want in general and what your current boyfriend might not be providing.

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    • StrippedRapedAndStrangled
      8 years ago

      ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES. The keyword here is "provide" money

      This behavior in is so common in women I won't waste anymore of my time. It's a womans actions (what she does) that defines her and has nothing to do with anything else.

      I don't hate women for being whores because I expect nothing less of them. What could be more empowering to a woman? Didn't think so...

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      • opal-leaves
        8 years ago

        Wow what a shallow comment but I understand your point of view. A lot of men feel this way & it's because us women haven't done much to change. I guess you're right I shouldn't expect a man to provide for me. I should depend on myself but I also am there to provide for my boyfriend whenever he needs the help. We help each other out.

        I don't think all I want is money because I would've stayed with me ex if that was the case... I guess a lot of it stems from being poor my whole life & seeing how hard my mom had to struggle to survive and I guess I don't want the same life but then again life is life. You can't plan it.

        Maybe I'm just spoiled & need to learn teamwork. Thanks.

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        • StrippedRapedAndStrangled
          8 years ago

          You are young? You'll want to settle down eventually but what mistake women make is not doing it sooner when their bodies are nice and desirable to a man. Alot of times they'll fuck around is their younger years experimenting with different cock because social networking gives them virtually unlimited access to dick, they get all used up and lose their value.

          The "problem" isn't the modern women but the unlimited choices she is given due to the technological advances given to her by man.

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    • opal-leaves
      8 years ago

      But what do I do?

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      • Short4Words
        8 years ago

        See what his ambitions are. At the end of the day if you aren't happy then there's only one choice to make as hard as it is.

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        • opal-leaves
          8 years ago

          Thanks for your words. Yes we both have very high ambitions. I guess it's a matter of time & working together. I saw him after work (after I work this post) & everything was bliss again. & I am happy I was just so lost as to why I had a random thought of my ex yesterday. Thank you @short4words

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          • Short4Words
            8 years ago

            Happy to help.

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  • doolittler
    8 years ago

    You do not know what Love is sorry My wife an I were Married 38 1/2 Years and we never cheated! You must Love them true to get loved back.

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