I am open to suggestions

I feel so sad . I just want to cry. I am a good man who goes above and beyond for any one who cares for me and is good to me. I don't want to be a burden of any kind to any one. I don't know what else to do. I am trying my best to change my life . My kindness was my own silent killer killing me slowly. all I am is a burden
I just admitted to my self that I am not happy with my life. Don't know if I will ever be happy. Don't know how how to be happy. Don't know if I ever will be. I have nothing in common with no one I don't see any point in being around any one. I am better off not being here.

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  • suckonthis9

    Unfortunately, what you are describing is a symptom of life in many societies today.
    You are incorrect when you state that you do not have anything in common with anyone. Many people feel similar to the way you do.
    It is possible to be happy, by oneself.
    Friendships require opportunity, commonality and trust. It sometimes requires time to build trust, but at other times it can happen quite quickly. Be wary of those who might try to 'indoctrinate' you into a set of beliefs in things that are not real. Always ask yourself, "Is this real?". If you are unsure, take time to research it by yourself or with others. You might want to go to a public library. If you are having trouble understanding something, ask a stranger (for advice) if they can help you to understand.
    You have admitted that you are kind. This is an excellent quality, and something else that you have in common with many others. You might want to find something that you believe in. Research organizations that share similar beliefs (not necessarily the first you come across). Volunteer. This can provide opportunity to form new friendships.

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  • It doesn't matter if you're happy, not happy, good, not good, we're all going to die and fade into nothingness.

    Anything you feel is fake.

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    • NocturnePonyFan

      'Tis true. I love how everyone is so blind to the truth of life. They refuse to see life for what it really is.

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      • You can't blame them though, that truth is cold and scary.

        It can also be a blessing.

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  • sexxybitch:)

    Awe :/ don't think like this !!!!!! I'm sorry

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  • Warrior

    At bad man alive
    True but with on those 50 years I want to no correction will turn my life around and live HAPPILY. And so should you

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  • NocturnePonyFan

    Honestly, the best thing you can do for yourself is to learn to just stop giving a shit about people. I'm willing to bet that you have been hurt by people who take advantage of your kindness and generosity. That can really hurt a person. From my experience, life is better (for me, at least) when I take care of myself and just say "fuck it" to others. Our society is a piece of shit. You're told you have to care about others, that you have to be generous to the point where you forget yourself. Once you learn to stop caring, life will get much easier!

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    • NocturnePonyFan

      Wow, people sure are afraid of the truth. Hope you all have fun being consistently hurt and let down by everybody you know. Don't come crying to me when you realize life is nothing but disappointment.

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  • aoi2108

    Here's a suggestion: If you have some savings, how about doing some volunteering somewhere far away? If you're not in a situation where you can do that, you can still join an association in your country and help homeless people, handicapped people...you might find that when you do something new and meet new people you can rediscover yourself. Interacting with those who have different values and priorities in life may be somewhat helpful.

    I understand how you feel. Good luck in finding a new direction.

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  • Daisybee

    It's time to think of number one. Be nice to others but only for your own benefit people respect you more if you are your own person stand up for you self don't be a walk over.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Yep everyone does it.

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  • ccjigsaw

    I feel the same as you some days! I drag my ass around for the day, feel sorry for myself. Cry. Then I pick myself back up again and move on. It helps you get it all out, but you have to remember, after a while it's realy not doing you any good.

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  • Warrior

    Already got a dam good one thank you next

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  • rodrigoeleuterio

    You need to find a girlfriend and need to meet god

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  • Warrior

    At sexy bitch awww your so cute

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  • Warrior

    Thanks guys well on this day I am in expectancy of new things to happen great things let's see what comes to fruition

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  • GuessWho

    Don't feel bad about it. I'm sure there are people willing to support you when you aren't able to support yourself that don't expect anything in return.

    It's fine when friends rely on me. I don't see them as a burden, I'll be happy to help when they're in need.
    I'm sure there must be someone like this for you too.

    As for how to be happy...
    Just do things that are fun. Do what you enjoy, and you'll feel much better.

    Everyone goes through bad times. Just don't give up; things will work out eventually.

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  • DrJerry

    You are not alone my friend, my life sucks too : / but its the only one we have so learn to live with it, then you can start trying to make it better.

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  • Preacher

    I've felt this way too and I decided to keep fighting and do my best so I could willingly blame the world for my frustration. I saw that we only get to live once and even if we're feeling sadness we have eons ahead of ourselves of not feeling anything. I'd like to think that before that I will have done everything in my power to be content with myself. Hang in there, you can win in the end, as long as you don't give up.

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  • Warrior

    At Tommy the cat
    It matters to me how I feel because you just proved me right everyone that has commented on my post has had nothing but positive and encouraging for full things to say I was expecting an unintelligent truculence Belligerents foolish insipidus insidious idiot like yourself To leave a negative comments like that luckily for me I had an awakening a truthful moment of sorts the catalyst which allowed me to speak the truth and be honest with myself to all of you who have reached out to me Udi and everyone Else whole left positive constructive ideas insightful ideas on how I can improve my life and change the course of my life I say this to you thank you God bless you and I consider you My friends
    Tomcat get a life

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