I am not sure if i am trans or not.

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I am a male, and for a while, I have admired how females look and act. The problem is that I do not know whether this is just normal physical attraction, or if I am actually transgender. Sometimes I wish that I could look and act like a woman, but it feels weirdly sexual. Even if I did know for sure that I wanted to change my gender, I am not sure that I would, because I am a perfectionist, and I know that however much I try, I will never be able to look and act exactly like a woman. Also, even if I could, how would I know if I would actually feel comfortable then? Maybe I am just unhappy, and I think that any change will help me.

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Based on 22 votes (13 yes)
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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Become a metrosexual instead of chopping your bits off. What you have is at best a desire for good hygiene and at worst a fetish (a common one as fetishes go).

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  • noid
    7 years ago

    Well, my understanding is that individuals with a true gender identity disorder have spent a good deal of time feeling trapped in their body - feeling they are a man in a woman's body or a woman in a man's body. It causes them a lot of distress. You don't sound like that. These are the ones that tend to transition eventually or at least say they are the other sex/gender and try to look/act like it.

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  • noid
    7 years ago

    If you are not sure if you are one, you are not.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Why do you say?

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      • CreamPuffs
        7 years ago

        If you're transgender, it'll feel obvious. Odds are you just appreciate some aspects of a more feminine lifestyle.

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  • Couman
    7 years ago

    I'm inclined to say no, I suspect it wouldn't work out well for you.

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