I am more then just a blowup doll

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Ok! Well then..I seem to always go back to this ongoing issue. I need your advice pls. I have been in a longterm like 8year relationship with the man i absolutely adore BUT, For the past 7yrs our normal mating session is like a wam bam flick. As he tries to deside how many positions he can stick it in my special spot without paying any attention to the rest of my body. I keep myself in great shape and get a lot of outside attention but not from my man, plus he has a smokin bod and he knows it too, . When a friend i confided in told me to give him clear direct, well that ended with him feeling frustrated and ruined the"moment". Any suggestions out there in cyber world. Please help

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  • Stuckinthetunnel
    13 years ago

    thx all Ill try everthing

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  • howaminotmyself
    13 years ago

    There's a really good book called "Guide to Getting it on." It's kind of a technical manual for all things sex. It teaches both partners the finer side of orgasms without insulting the male ego.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    get a sex calender that shows one position per day and then make a game of it.

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    • dappled
      13 years ago

      What a great idea. I had no clue they even made things like that.

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    I could make such a funny Marks & Spencers joke about this, but only British people would get it, sadly.

    As for your problem, I'd have agreed with your friend. Sex is about communication, sometimes direct communication. I hate the thought of someone lying there thinking, "this would be fantastic if only he'd go a bit higher, deeper, faster, or pay attention to something else for a bit". For some men, it might be seen as an assault on their technique but if you can reassure him that it's just tweaking, it might be okay.

    After all, no gender can truly feel what the other is feeling.

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  • bobmcay
    13 years ago

    Give him oral, let him do what he wants to you

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