I am leaving for college, should i break up with my girlfriend?

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I am a senior and my girlfriend is a junior. I am going to a college that is on the other coast of florida, but I'm not sure if I want a long distance relationship. Also, I'll be in college, with college girls. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and she always brings it up, almost like shes trying to guilt me into staying with her, or not leaving for college. What should I do?

Yes, break up with her 38
No, stay with her and try to make it work 28
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  • Nanavisions
    12 years ago

    Try the long distance relationship for a month, and see if it works out. If it dosent work out tell her that a long distance relationship is to hard and it hurts that you cant see her,but if you really love her and i mean really love her ask if her if when both of you are done with college yall can get back together

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    I would have said "No! Don't break up with her!!!" But from your "There will be college girls" statement, I figured i'd save her the heart break and vote for you to dump her. I hope you do realize getting chicks isn't as easy as movies make it out to be.

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  • fletcherkydude
    11 years ago

    I would like to tell you that if you put enough work into it that it would work out. I would LIKE to tell you that... but history shows that it wont. Put your faith in god. let him lead you to the answer... do what he says... i promise you that he is right... if he means it to be, it will be.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Yeh I would dump her as well. It doesnt sound serious at all.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    My vote is to break up with her. Have fun in college and if you two happen to cross paths again at a later time so be it. You didn't mention anything about how serious your relationship is so I'm guessing it's not that serious but Seriously, just go your own ways for a little while. It's better than breaking her heart a few months into college after you dump her anyways. Be free my man and wear a condom.

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