I am in love with a usless much older man

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I'm 19 and i am in a relationship with a 43 year old guy. He is not good looking, he can't really get it up, his always so busy and he is really rude to like EVERYONE around him except for me, but he is multi millionair....anyway I'm pretty wealthy myself so I know its not his wealth thats keeping me around....but i am soooo deeply in love with this guy its ridiculous to even talk about...I am with him everyday from like 9am-6pm and on the phone with him from like 6pm-till i fall asleep....I am part time model/beverly hills law office secretary i have a lot of potential but I am soo in love with him nd dont even wantto think about ANYONE else and i dont know what it is about him that i am so NUTS about...am i normal for staying in this relationship or even being so in love with guy my dads age?

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  • regane
    13 years ago

    I think this is fake.... I saw a similar post a few days ago with similar situation, and it breaks my heart when people are insincere on IIN,

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  • Solimorphic
    15 years ago

    It does not matter how "useless", rude or sexually inept he is.

    It does not matter that he is married, etc.

    It does not matter what gets posted in this forum.

    You won't listen to us or anyone.

    How do I know this??

    ... drum roll please ....

    * BECAUSE YOU ARE IN LOVE *

    ;-)

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  • Bananas0053
    13 years ago

    Im sorry but i just think its gross

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Tell us what would happen if he suddenly was broke?

    Somehow, I think, the bloom would be off the rose. No?

    This is about love alright - the love of money....

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Yawn

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  • skewder
    14 years ago

    I'm not denying that you are in love, though I do think that there are better candidates for a soul mate/ father. You say hes busy and rude all the time, doesn't sound like a family man to me.

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  • cucurbita
    14 years ago

    Sound like some one has daddy issues.

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  • mansk777
    15 years ago

    lol when ever i stop getting it up espically for a model that is when im going to off myself.
    DO NOT DO IT
    you'll be regarded as a gold digger or more likely a trophy wife and believe me no one respects that.

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  • peterr2
    8 years ago

    Does he eat you out at all? That is the most important question here.

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  • golden_showers
    9 years ago

    start noticing other dudes. you're poisoning your existence.

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    Yuck! It's like hell's anus is winking via this post.

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  • pyt_1185
    11 years ago

    I don't think 43 is that old for him to NOT be getting it up. Is he sick, diabetic or something? Sometimes that causes impotence. But if you're in love and he treats you well, go for it. But think about it first, make sure you can do it, and unless something tragic happens, he'll probably die before you, and you'll lose him before you've got a good amount of years left without him. Just don't make a rush decision.

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    • kelili
      11 years ago

      Yeah so true.. Once I was with a 49 who could fet it up real nicely so I don't believe a shit about this story

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  • Msbecky
    13 years ago

    Its normal hun and from personal experience Id say because hes always around to give you comfort because he really cant do anything but you accept him for it youre in love he has to make you feel good in some way my ex was 35 and im 18 but he had a son and that was our situation he rarely had time for me i still loved him though

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  • sammif
    13 years ago

    i know how u feel accept bout the money part. im close to ur age n have always fallen for much older guys. not always sexualy but sometimes.
    im not sure if its normal or not but its who i am i guess. i cant find a guy my own age or even close. the problem is the age thing for them. even my dad says im mature for my age.

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  • Quetzacoatl2
    14 years ago

    Multi millionaire?
    $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
    I'd marry him right now and divorce him and take half his money.

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  • BayonetKnifeFighter
    14 years ago

    Wow. I just lost all faith in humanity, however you're rich and I'm not, so I guess you win...

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    it sounds like you are in love with his old balls,,,,i have a friend who has a fetish for that stuff

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    Somehow I don't think you are personally rich. And I think its this guy's money that attracts you, and that you just are putting up a big smoke screen about it.

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  • nvr4gther
    15 years ago

    sigh....girl???? what the fuck?..well u may need to look in yourself to find the reason why your with him and if that reason is more important than havin kids in the next few years to come then u deserve each other ......ps you will be getting very horny when ur in your late 20 and he will stop having those feeling..so think about that real hard

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  • face_grinder11
    14 years ago

    I don't think so. He probably won't cheat on you like a guy your own age would. Your an adult. If you've found your soul mate, stick with him!

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  • rosa143
    14 years ago

    hey thanks fo all the help yes i guess i do love old balls its a poblem i cant fix my friend's dad's turn me on. i cant help it

    im in love with this man and his not as useless as i thught i lost my virginity to him and fell that much more for him...my parents pretty much dis-own me now so i got engaged to him...

    but it makes me sad when i see my friends from school with hot young guys going to parties while im like sitting in a mansion with old balls.

    i feel like im missing out on youth...but eveytime i think deep about it and decide to break it off i cant even get one word out of my mouth he just makes me melt! im just nuts sory guys thanks for tying to help

    utopian we should try to come up with something
    solimorphic :) your right

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  • Brenda626
    14 years ago

    a tear just fell to the flore... sweety your in love... just go with it :)

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  • UtopianCosmos
    15 years ago

    I've been in the same position, minus the money, and exactly the same age...Only mine was 45 and then 47...recently down to 32. Maybe I'm not normal LOL.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    15 years ago

    why did i say he is useless because

    he cant get it up which is gonna be hard for me because i want to make a family with him...

    also i didint mention he is mrried and has children but is separated from his wife not legally...

    i know i could never marry him because my parents would never accept it and i wouldnt want to hurt them

    but what should i do? please some advice people

    i have always dated men 15 years older than I but this time i fell soooo deep i cant get out!

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