I am in love with a stranger

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i have a friend. i have heard stories about this girl,my friend's cousin. i haven't seen her but in pictures. i have fell in love with her.it took 4 days for me to tell this to my friend. thank god he is okay with that, but he couldnt tell about this to her as she may misunderstand him. today is her birthday,we sent her a cake and greetings. she have seen my name but she dint asked him anything about me ( she dont know me ). what should i suppose to do?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    It's called LUST, not love.

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    • meher
      8 years ago

      If it is LUST why would I feel I would die for her. Why I think about her all the time.

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      • Koda
        8 years ago

        Oh, gimme a break... I'm sorry, but you can't love someone you don't know. Romantic feelings aren't all love is, otherwise we wouldn't love our family or friends, but we do. Like weirdgiraffekid suggested, you've developed an obsession. You're pretty ridiculous if you think you'd die for someone you don't even know yet. She could be a total bitch for all you know. She could be a serial killer.

        The feelings you're feeling are all at once amazing and terrifying, I'm sure. There's no better feeling than falling for someone, but there's no greater frustration either. When these types of feelings are new, you tend to think crazy, illogical things.

        Deep down, you know your life's purpose was not revealed to you on the day you saw a J-Peg of a girl. You know you weren't lost until you saw her pixels. You'll eventually get over this, but maybe you should try to meet her and see what happens anyway. Good luck...

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        • CountessDouche
          8 years ago

          But...but...I...thought we had something special...

          *stomps on shrine crafted from Legos and Elmer's glue and throws it out the window*

          Fine! Be that way!

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      • weirdgiraffekid
        8 years ago

        Because you're taking your emotions way too seriously and turning lust into a huge obsession.

        Not to say that emotions aren't important, but I have noticed that emotions can become stronger and more troubling when I worry about "what they mean."

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  • meher
    8 years ago

    once again thanks to everyone. i have thought a lot if it is love or not. i told about this to my friend. he will support me. but we just don't know how to proceed. i mean how he should introduce me to her.

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  • Tarkio
    8 years ago

    How can you even have a crush on someone you have never talked to or seen in person? They could be really good photos (on facebook they usually are) and embellished stories. They could have annoying gestures, quirks, or a strange personality. Get a grip.

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  • meher
    8 years ago

    Thanks to everyone. As I said she is my friend's cousin. And she is a very good gal. I just couldn't forget her n I wanted to live with her so badly. She is always there in my thoughts no matter what I do.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    It's called infatuation or dare I even say a crush, but not love, dearie.

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  • horny_simpletons
    8 years ago

    How much do you know about her? Is it just her appearance you like or other things? Either way, you don't really love her if you don't know her yet. Having a crush on someone who doesn't know you well and/or doesn't feel the same is frustrating.

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