I am from the south

You basically just said you can't be racist towards white people and you can't be sexist towards men... that's some straight up bull shit. The idea of playing the "victim" card doesn't do any good. We live in the freest society every in the history of ever. Saying society is to blame for all your problems is not a good way to live. Honestly your not special, nobody cares if your black or white or gay or transgender. Nobody cares what you do with your life. There is nobody that cares so much about what you do that will make your life miserable because your black. Do whatever the fuck you want with your life because nobody cares. That's the reality of this country and what makes it great. And I actually like the idea of what you said about how a person saying that the bad things are not that bad where you live. It's called encouragement. It's called being happy with what your have. I tell people stuff like that everyday because we are all so lucky to live in the best country ever. We can literally do whatever we want. That's the read I'm allowed to disagree with you. Honestly with people talking you that your the victim of society is not empowering to anyone. What is impowering is the idea that we can do anything we want in life and nobody can come in the way of it. And it's literally so stupid that people care about what other people say about them I mean really? Are you two? Who gives a fuck if someone says your dumb because your black? Okay... just ignore them and move on. And you don't need experience to have a valid opinion on something. Do I have to be a food critic to know that a meal sucks? Do I have to be a music critic to have a "valid" opinion that a song is awful? No. you don't. It's almost the same thing. No, it IS the same thing. So people should stop victimizing themselves and start just not caring what people think about them.