I am confused, which sex am i attracted to?

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I used to think I was a lesbian due to the fact I never have been attracted to a male, I have checked the Internet to see the "hottest" men in the world but none really looked appealing, but, then I saw a man that I was actually attracted to the first time which really makes me confused, also I think that having intercourse with the opposite sex is gross, but with a female I won't think the same but it wouldn't be as effective?? I am just really confused. For example if a man confessed his love for me it would make me happy in a romantic way but if a woman confessed it wouldn't be as affective? please help me out I am confused.

Also, due to the fact I was raped several years ago made me grossed out by the opposite sex, I feel grossed out about how perverted they are even though it's natural

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    8 years ago

    sorry yall gots cornfused when yall saw me

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    • July
      8 years ago

      Lol

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  • brian242
    8 years ago

    I recommend ditch the labels if you're confused. I recommend saying "I don't know" to people who ask what your sexuality is and explain to them what you wrote here.
    And I recommend you keep noticing what you are attracted to, and what you respond to sexually.
    And the day you become not confused anymore you can give yourself the appropriate label.

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  • Cymbalism
    8 years ago

    Sexual attraction is weird. I've been trying to define myself for a long time, but it can be very complex. If you're looking for a label, then "bisexual" is probably good enough, though there seem to be plenty of people that need a paragraph to define their sexuality in an accurate way. :)

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  • shuggy-chan
    8 years ago

    Im confused on what burrito i am attracted too

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  • toofgod
    8 years ago

    The reason for your confusion is due to the trauma associated with rape and more especially if you were a minor at the time. I've heard this "corrective rape" in Africa has been some what of a success. hmmmm

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  • I'm-not-a-bitch
    8 years ago

    Bi to the sexual I guess.

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  • qualityaristocrat
    8 years ago

    This problem only exists as a result of our degenerate culture.

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  • NeofelisNebulosa
    8 years ago

    That sounds a bit like me... I thought I was lesbian and now I consider myself bisexual. Don't worry about it, sexuality can be fluid. Just go with the flow.

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