I am attracted to one man. am i bisexual?

I have always been HetroSexual. All my life. Loved Girls. But not to long ago, I met this guy. Before I even got to know him I was attracted to him. When I got to know him a bit, it just made me more attracted. I wouldn't think of myself has Bisexual, but after this, this one guy, i'm not sure anymore. Am I Bisexual, or is this just a normal thing that most guys go threw?

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  • dramadude

    Not necessarily.
    I am in a similar position. I have date girls my entire life. then recently i feel in love with a beautiful boy. we have been dating for a few months and i have never been happier. both of us were straight before this and most people don't believe that we are together. If my relationship does end i am not sure if i will go back to girls or try guys for a while.
    the point is that you don't have to choose. just see where your heart takes you.

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    • Dallas

      That is so cool... :)
      I don't think it's weird AT ALL.
      Same thing happened to me.
      I've always been into girls, but in high school I met this guy. I started to feel an attraction, an intense one & then fell in love with him.
      ...He loved me, but it all ended bad :(

      But it's normal, it's love.
      We're all Bisexual.

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  • viky7

    It’s very normal dude!!

    No one is 100% straight or 100% gay! Our sexuality lies in the somewhere form 1 to 100( sort of Kinsey scale).

    All of us are attracted to beauty let it be a flower, car or in this case a guy or a girl. I am 90% gay( can’t live without thinking about a hunk for a moment) and 10 % attracted to very hot chicks.

    Also it depends on the chemistry between two people, like you can be married to a girl with whom you match 70% and then comes a cute guy who understand you better, cares for you and starts loving you like 99%, then obviously you’ll like that person irrespective of his/her gender!

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  • KingLouisXVI

    It's normal. Nobody is 100%% heterosexual or 100%% homosexual. Everyone has leanings toward bisexuality. I would suggest that you read up on the Kinsey scale.

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    • secretguy25

      100%% with you!

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  • iceyangel13

    Don't feel the need to label yourself once you realize that labels are meaningless you'll be happier. We can't help who we are attracted to so just live life to the fullest, do what feels right.

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  • theRealDeal

    Very insightful! Thanks for the info-I don't feel too bad about the fact of my Bi-ness!lol really helped!

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  • MsUsou

    i think anyone can be bisexual. because attraction does not always have to do with physical characteristics. its like when u speak to someone online and u feel attracted to them because of what they said. pleasure goes beyond male and female xD

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  • SamuraiPeeper

    Everyone's bi.

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  • bimomate

    Studys show, that 99%% of all living things, are bisexual.

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  • youre

    I would say its a 100% not normal at all even after i read u guys comments and i c that most of u guys said that no budy is a 100% Straight i still can't imagin my self with another guy ,even thinking of it after what u guys saying right now make me so disgusted ,sorry and ( i am very very veryyy open minded )and if thies feeling just tuch me i would directly go for it without even asking, so here i am (a 100% straight)

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  • NotSoLaky

    Who cares? Live life and try somthing new. But it also depends wherr you live and in what country. Be careful but be yourself. Sometimes its hard to find a balance

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  • hasty

    If you're feeling it, go for it. Love transcends physical appearance and gender, and I think you'd be making a huge mistake ignoring such a strong gut attraction towards someone. Some people here say that everyone is bisexual. I beg to differ, I've never felt the slightest sexual attraction toward another man.. but who knows man, could change for me any day now like it did you. All I'm saying is, if you're feeling the love, don't repress it.

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  • PandaShifter

    Fraude said that we are all born bisexual, and through development and evironmental influences we become monosexual(gay or straight). It could be that this man's hormones have triggered something within you. Just go with it and explore yourself.

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  • jasonapple

    This is my rule of thumb, if you have a strong attraction just do it, if your attraction is not that strong and you don't want to do it then don't. Why don't people just do it and see if they like it, how are people supposed to know if it's your thing unless you do it?

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  • Well it looks like ur gonna have to sleep with him in order to find out hmmmmm

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