I am attracted to my husband's friend

I am very sexually much attracted to one of my husband's friend. He is always close to our family. He used to visit our family every now and then even when i am alone at home. I know he feels same toward me. should i screw him? but how approach? pl advise.

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Based on 221 votes (125 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • VioletTrees

    It's normal to be sexually attracted to other people, but you SHOULD NOT act on it unless you're in an open marriage. Get a vibrator or something. Keep that shit inside your brain.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    Talk to your husband about your feelings if they are that overwhelming. It might be uncomfortable, but it's the best thing to do and you never know what positives could result from it (after the argument, of course).

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  • LastknownJohn

    Normal to be attracted, even to fantasize. But no, you shouldn't screw him.

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  • shinshins

    You are fucking disgusting how would your husband feel that his excuse of a wife is fuckin his bestfriend. You're trash

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  • redtruck

    You disgust me you nasty your already married what's wrong with you if your gonna cheat just divorce him poor guy I feel bad for him your nasty wired enough said call Ed !!

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  • quentari

    don't cheat on your husband. If you don't care about his feelings or he isn't satisfying you then talk with him and/or break up with him.

    And do not just go for it, this other guy might like you but refuse you because you are his best friends wife, in which case your marriage AND your relationship with this guy will go down the drain.

    Try to think of someone other than yourself.

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  • topper33

    lucky friend

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  • noemimi93

    It's best zig you don't do anything with him..you could regret something that'll possibly ruin your marriage

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  • cme3185

    get him alone and just open his pants and start sucking his dick.

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  • NeonLighterz

    Don't be a hoe.

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  • heavyscissors

    This is a man speaking. I think you should ignore the angry creeps. Do it. Screw the guy for all you are worth. We don't have a lot of chances for great sex in this life. The bottom line is that you don't owe your husband a sacrifice of your own sexual happiness if he is not able to fulfill it. Eventually you need to be honest with him and see if he is willing to support your need for an open relationship (he might be, you never know).

    If there is a possiblity your husband might become violent or otherwise make your life miserable if you are unfaithful, don't take the risk. But find a way to make your desire a reality. It is clear from what you have written that you are at a loss and need to do something different in your life.

    Don't be cowed by the controlling angry males and the goddamn prudish puritans!!!

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  • pappusharma

    Don't do it...

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  • What noopie said. Sometimes you have to control yourself and change your mindset. I was attracted to my ex boyfriend's brother (because I had known him first before I met my ex boyfriend) but when I started dating my ex I changed my thoughts about him from romantic thoughts to 'friend' thoughts. (Sorry can't think of a better word right now)

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Don't do anything.

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  • Watermelon28

    I answered "no" by a mistake..sorry for that
    I think it's normal
    And if u wanna hit that I think you should make sure that he wants it too cuz if u will tell him that..he may go tell ur husband and the marriage will probably be over
    And if you know for sure that he wants it too just don't do it at your house ...higher chance of getting caught in case he comes home early or something..sure as hell I wouldn't wanna be cheated on so do it carefully
    Good luck :]

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    • myboyfriendsbitch

      Ha...ha?

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