I am always having fights with people wherever i go. is it normal?

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I am a female, and i always seem to have arguments and fights with people around me wherever i go. If its at school, there are arguments, at home...everywhere, name it!
I have two best friends, and recently one of them really pissed me off. I was EXTRA ANGRY. I did not want to speak to her, or even look at her. I told my other friend about it, and she told this girl how i had pissed her off. She is the loud type so she shouted to everyone about how unhappy she was with me. This is the trend all the time. Even when i was in middle school, high school, and now college. Even at home, i dont want to talk to someone when they have annoyed me, and i seriously feel the tension in the air. it can get that bad. I keep wondering if i am unsocial, or if i am a mean person, or difficult to understand, or if i have some personality problem. I honestly and genuinely do not have bad intentions with these people. I dont know why i keep having these kinds of run ins. Anyone gone through this, and can you help me out please?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You should carry a boombox with you that plays the Mortal Kombat theme song nonstop.

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  • Internecine
    12 years ago

    Two options. Either everyone in the world has set out to anger you, or you - individually - have anger issues.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    People who get angry/defensive tend to think very highly of their own opinions/desires - therefore causing a need to force it on others.

    Maybe it's time to tune down the me-thinking and start thinking more about how other people are affected by you.

    And by the way, the whole not talking to the person you're angry with is VERY childish. In the adult world, people talk about things that upset them without temper tantrums, name-calling, or ultimatums. Or at least they should, maybe the adults in your life didn't set you a very good example. But, it's never too late to change your behaviour and how you react to others.

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  • Qzz
    11 years ago

    Maybe just chavvy ?

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  • Mintay
    12 years ago

    Maybe you just naturally pick at too many things? I wouldn't know~

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  • ck345
    12 years ago

    i have the same problem, lets be friends

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  • CorpusLuteum
    12 years ago

    I rarely get angry, but i can easily get irritable, and i guess i am very sensitive too, and abit emotional, but i am trying to lower it all down abit. Its just that i have noticed that since i was younger, i keep getting this order of getting pissed with someone, not talking to each other for a while, make up with that person, and things are back to normal..then the routine happens all over again...get pissed at someone, not talking for like a week or some few days, make up and we're friends again..does that happen to me alone, or it happens to everyone? This 'behavior' has been following me since up till now.

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