I am almost 24 and never even kissed

I don't know what to say...it never happened, I hear people saying that getting a girl is easy, that now days women will give you signals or even approach you, but I have never seen any woman showing me any interest whatsoever..I tried approaching them, I probably have more than 100 rejections so far, and right now I just don't feel like talking to women anymore...

1) does it matter to women if a guy is 24 and have never had any experience at all?

2) Am I missing a lot or is it just too overrated?

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  • PrincessLollipop

    Aww!!!!!!!!! That's cute!!!!!!

    But anyways, it's not common, but def normal. :D

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    • tentacleTherapist

      Lol I agree.

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  • IAmNothing

    Obviously, I sense you are expressing a need for a life-long committed partner, someone you can deeply love and receive love in return. Perhaps it is because you are not a "likable" person in terms of good looks and societal stigma. Unfortunately, many men as well as women follow after looks, style, fashion, status in society, assets, pleasure, and ego instead of the hidden and valuable qualities in each and every person. It appears to be the way of the world...

    But that does not mean, you must interpret your 100 rejections to mean that there is not a partner for you in life. Remember you are a man, and as far as I know, there are more rejected women than men in the world. So don't give up and say there is no one capable and willing to love you.

    I find when you stop looking for your soul mate, and just make friends of the opposite sex with no intentions but to be friends and enjoy life by doing things together with your friends, you will eventually find that one person you have alot in common. Perhaps, you are too conscious about intimacy. Start with friendship with more than one woman for a change. From friendship you may find that one who is your soul mate, and the signals will come that she is interest in you and want to advance your relationship to another level. So... don't jump the gun to wanting intimacy instead of friendship. You will turn alot of girls away if you just want them to commit to you. So, rather approaching women just to be their friends sets the stage!

    Also, I think you have a self-esteem problem. Virginity is a pure and noble thing. There are many women in the world who are virgins. So don't let people make you think you are in the minority. There are so many who have lived well without the experience, and are content with what God has offered to them in this short life. There are people who are in their 30's who have not the experience.

    So... all I am saying to you, is to be MAN! Stop searching and change your approach. Instead, start making friends! Put your trust in God and from amongst the many friends you have, there could be one that you and her will have alot in common. But don't look for it. Rather, live life being single, care free, and present. Don't stress out yourself about this whole subject of finding a partner. God knows best. For many, it is when they are not seeking, is when they really find gold! Remember those words!

    Wish you well!

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  • ThatKidTotallyRocks

    Well, I'm almost 24, a girl, and have never been kissed. I've wanted to be kissed by a guy, but never have. I don't consider myself unattractive or whatever, but I'm still waiting on a romantic relationship. Maybe I look too young?

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    • PrincessLollipop

      Maybe you guys can kiss each other? ^.^

      LOL

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      • Neo.T

        hah

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    • CumAndGetIt

      ThatKidTotallyRocks
      It is unusual a man your age has never been kissed by a lady, woman or girl. I wouldn't
      say you are Gay but I would say you are affraid of taking that first step because of maybe, rejection. Go to week-end dances and parties and when you feel a "Spark", get her and start taling about the weather or the crowd that is there. If you are attracted to this lady, tell her. She will love that. Love is funny. Some want force some want tenderness. You need to find this out by listening to her talk to you. Trust me, my first kiss I still remember, I actually got extremely hard then came while I was kissing her. I really didn't know what to do. I told the young girl I was with I had to go because I was on a curfew with my parents and told her "Good Night". I saw Linda the following monday, this happened at a Friday night dance, and she asked if I enjoyed our night out Friday and "Of Course" I replied. Then she told me about myn erection and even my hot cum she felt when I kissed her. That, was emmbarrasing. We dated since and it was still-Kiss & Squirt. She liked what she could do to me and I liked it to. My parents moved from Tucson to Tampa, Florida. I have never forgot the girl till this day, I'm 66 yoa now. When this happens to you, I wished I was you and you were me. That is a wonderful feeling. Good Luck and hook~up soon!....C~Ya

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      • tentacleTherapist

        What the fuck?

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        • CumAndGetIt

          Whats your problem?

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          • CumAndGetIt

            And how come your site name is:
            Tentacle The Rapist?????

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          • tentacleTherapist

            That whole comment was directed to ThatKidTotallyRocks, right? What the hell are you blabbing on about when all she said she's a girl that's never been kissed?

            Just curious if you're high or something, because I couldn't see how that would tie in with her comment. If it's directed to the OP then I understand.

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    • addell

      me a man straight, never kiss till now 44 yo

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  • Nothing is more over rated then losing virginity or any of that other crap that men talk amongst themselves about.

    Dont worry about so much, focus on having fun, and that part will take care of itself. I would rather go out with my friends and focus on having fun with them, well at least when I was younger I did, then worry about hitting on some woman anyway. I KNEW I was gonna have fun with friends, getting lucky with a woman was a 50/50 chance at best. I take the sure thing over the chance any day.

    Think of those that have been royally screwed over by someone from the opposite sex and be thankful that while you havent had the relationship that you didnt get screwed over either.

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  • volozi

    I'd recommend paying for it.

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    • KrunkFu

      jesus fuck, 24 and never even kissed a girl? how is that even possible? dude unless you are some nerdy ass creeper that no one likes... just go to a party and find some drunk fat chick, now if you cant get a drunk fat chick to kiss you then you might as well give up all hope and buy a prostitute.

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      • volozi

        There's nothing wrong with paying for it. You're guaranteed sex, you can almost always find someone you're attracted to, it's good fun, and if you're inexperienced it's good practice. No reason to get embarrassed if you don't know what you're doing, because you don't have to see her again. I highly recommend it.

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  • IINtobeaninjasquirrel?

    Bitch, please. I'm 24 and I have no male friends and have been crushing on this boy for 12 years. I have wasted half my life chasing after this boy who already rejected me 12 years ago. I'm gonna die alone with 72 cats.

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    • atllover

      a lot can change in 12 years...

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  • ishitpandas

    Sad

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  • kungfuchick

    Either you are picking chicks who are way out of league or have hygiene issues and you don't know it. Do you give eye contact when speaking to other women? Pay attention to their responses when you approach initially. If their body language already seems like they are startled because of you, you should become more conscious of your appearance and hygiene. I know that when a few people who used to work in my office (but were let go due to many co-workers complaints) made everyone uncomfortable and no one wanted to help or train them because they were all in your face when they spoke and they had horrible teeth, dry peeled fungus infested looking lips, crap in their eyes, foul smelling breath and on a very rare occasion a hint of fart in their pants. To me it pisses me off that people will get in your face assuming that everything about them is all peaches and cream. If you fall in this category then just be happy that the worse thing they did was say "no" when you asked them out.

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    • Hagen

      I don't have problems with hygiene, no bad breath, shower at least once a day, use deodorant and cologne, good teeth,clean closes...no health or hygienic problem at all...

      I don't think I approach women outside my league...my standards are not high at all...I am not a princess hunter..

      On regards on my looks...well I am no Brad Pitt, but I don't consider my self ugly...I'm on the profile pic...but I don't know...there's definitely something wrong with me..

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      • kungfuchick

        I saw your pic that you told me look at and you look okay to me, but how do carry yourself? Are you timid or too straight forward? Do you present strange and unsavory topics up for conversation? Did your voice never deepen when you hit puberty?

        You should dress in black and try taking the whole "mysterious" persona. Women love guys that look cool and show little or no interest, because then you seem more like a challenge. If you appear to be too eager, then you look desperate and that is instantly a turn off. Seriously though ditch the argyle sweaters and try wearing black t-shirts and black jeans and don't tan. Your fair complexion actually makes you almost favor Ville Vallo, who is the frontman of H.I.M. (it stands for His Infernal Majesty) Straighten your hair and darken it and wear those cool oversized beanies. The more sinister, the hotter! My fiance isn't gothic or emo, but I do occasionally have him dress up like that hahaha. I thought that it was just me, but apparently there are a lot of women out there who have a weakness for guys who look like vampires, dress goth and emo. I hope that helps you. Just be subtle with the look and don't make it look like you're dressed for Halloween. Keep it simple and no overkill. Good luck! :)

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  • Malaglinir

    You must be approaching supermodels or something if you've approached 100+ girls and been turned down EVERY time. Most of the guys (like me) who complain about not getting girls cite an approachment issue. My recommendation is to just keep approaching and trying, eventually you'll find a girl, but I really do find it hard to believe that you've approached that many girls and been turned down. Even if you are really unattractive, I've seen plenty of below average guys end up with really attractive girls just because they put forth the effort.

    But to answer your questions:
    1. In my experiences, this depends on the girl. Some types will get frustrated that you don't know what you are doing and will just write you off as a crappy boyfriend. The other (more common it seems) type will think it's really cute and actually see it as a positive rather than negative.

    2. This part is hard for me to answer because I can only speak from a negative point of view, my last and only 3 relationships were fairly poor. Someone else can likely answer this better.

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  • quigers112

    It is easy in theory but when you try to actually do anything it feels impossible

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  • Hagen

    Thanks for the responses so far people....I appreciate it...but does experience plays a big part in a relationship?...does it get harder to find someone the older you get?

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  • Anime7

    I feel your pain. I'm at a point in my life where I just don't want to put in the effort to find love. I've tried in the past but it has always ended in rejections. However, there is a small glimmer of hope inside my heart that keeps telling me that I'll find love. Anyways, I hope you find a wonderful girl someday who'll understand you. Peace.

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  • misslogical

    That's good very very good there's too much going on out here anyways especially with that HIV/aids thing who in they right mind even wants to be kissed or even have sex protected or not...I love my body too much

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  • atllover

    1) i don't think it matters to girls if the guy in inexperienced, especially if she is. i'm 18, and when i first started gaining experience, i wished my boyfriend had more, so one of us could take charge. now that i am experienced, i'm happy to be the one to initiate, and take charge.
    2) i wouldn't say you're missing out, unless you feel you are. physical stuff's great and all, but really, i think you're missing the relationship part more. the happiest i've ever been was when i was with my boyfriend.
    i'm curious as to why you think you keep getting rejected. you seem nice from this blurb. maybe you're meeting people in the wrong place, or you're not saying the right things.

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  • BreeBees

    Not.normal.

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  • TheTodd11

    Its not a big deal to women that you're a virgin.. Don't tell her.. Just find u one of those sluts that thinks ur kinda good looking and stick ur penis inside her... Once u get that first one out the way its nothing but fun fun fun!!!It u cum really quick, who da fuck cares!!! at least u got your rocks off....

    DONT PUT THE PUSSY ON A PEDISTOOLE

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  • tentacleTherapist

    1)It's better that way

    2)Wait a few years! To me men are like wine - better aged ♥

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    • CumAndGetIt

      If that is true, then I definately am a good wine and will make you feel real good after 1 drink. I'll have to take your keys away and put you in bed. Sure don't won't you driving DUI....

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      • tentacleTherapist

        I don't think you know what I'm talking about.

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        • CumAndGetIt

          Yes I do, I'm getting older not memory loss, yet. I was very much like her feelings she wrote when I was coming up, now when the women see me coming they turn the lights out before I get there. Hmmmmmmmmmm???? I went from hating rejection and scared to death to a better lover than Casanova. When through, if my woman was not satisfied, I go back to work on her. It is very important to me now that she is satisfied as much as I.....

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          • tentacleTherapist

            That's good. I just meant I love older men, that's all.

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            • CumAndGetIt

              I'll give you a hint. I am over sixty, very sexually active, if she ain't there when I'm ready, I'll start with out her. I ride a big Black and Chrome motorcycle and have controlling interest in our International M/C Club. Wine, women and wild rides go with a bike! When I can't do this, chances are: I'm DEAD.....

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      • CumAndGetIt

        Darn! Tentacle, if you are a male, you can sleep on the front yard. I'll wake you up in the morning.

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        • tentacleTherapist

          Huh? I'm a girl. I love older men.

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  • Dozis

    Spin the bottle
    truth or dare.
    Seven minutes in heaven.

    Have fun.

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  • caitienall

    take your time there's no rush at all but I will say experience does help ask your friends for tips maybe ask a female friend what they like

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    • Hagen

      ha...I don't really have a female friend....and my friends tried to help by introducing me some girls....but it wasn't very efficient....I'm not shy...but i keep to myself a lot...I don't like acting cocky..and I know that that is a quality that women go for..so it's quite challenging to interact with girls my age...

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  • Miss_Anthrope

    Give it time, you'll find the right lady. :)

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  • Pissmeoff

    Im 12 an my frends kiss all the time u r a fu¢kin wierdo

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    • IINtobeaninjasquirrel?

      You, my friend, are obviously one who does not understand life and only knows the world of electronics. I pity you, and what many of your generation is becoming.

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      • Hagen

        So...pissmeoff...you said that your friends kiss all the time...but have you ever kissed anyone yourself?

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