I am afraid of youngers

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i have social phobia. i am afraid of my younger brothers. and of other juniors. i am even afraid of kids. they are four or seven years younger. i dont have any self respect and i dont have any respect from youngers. some of the friends of my younger brothers come to the house and behave in a rude way and with no respect that me..... an elder brother is present. most of my youngers are taller and i have a chilidish and weird face. i feel inconfident. i am also inconfident of my attitude and my brains. iin?

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  • Bleach2476
    13 years ago

    Youngers?

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    Inconfident hey?

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  • Trismegistus
    13 years ago

    Or maybe he just needs to change family.It's hard for people like you to live amongst those who are constantly struggling for power with their every word,gesture and action.They are merely tring to fit in the hierarchy using the tools they have.
    And once it's established,there is no way of working your way up without obtaining the usual betrayal response.Once you are put in your place, you should resort to either light,mild or severe psychological abuses and humiliations,but you just can't do that.Cause the emotions they trigger inside you are way stronger and difficult to manage for you,than they will ever be for them any time soon. If you get angry they think there is something wrong,if you start judging their way of behaving,there is something wrong with you, whatever it is you do out of scheme,to them,there is just something wrong with you.Period.If they could only examine themselves in order to understand what's in their behaviour making you afraid,and change,the problem would vanish like that.But I'm afraid that is just impossible.Sadly.If they somehow managed to cease scaring you,they would most likely start getting afraid of other people way more than you are afraid of them now.So... Good luck with your treatment.

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  • DanB
    13 years ago

    Not normal clearly.

    Grow a pair and don't let kids run amuck.

    Secondly, you either need a gf or therapy to deal with all the insecurities you seem to have.

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