I am a woman, yet i hate my breasts?

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Okay, so I am a woman, and honestly, I like being one. I wear dresses and sparkly things, I enjoy typically feminine things, and I go by feminine names and pronouns. But I hate my breasts, and I don't know what to do about this.

Most people I've seen discussing these topics are people who are transgender and would prefer to be male, nonbinary, people whose breasts are unnaturally oversized, or people with breast issues- diseases or cancer. I am none of these things. Anyone I've seen asking about these topics have also received most of the same answers, those being either "get a reduction, you'll be fine", "just accept it you'll get used to them", or, the one I hate most, "Men like it you shouldn't get rid of them". I don't want any answers like this. I do not care about what men would think of my body, I have tried to get used to them to no avail, and a reduction won't help, as they're very small so a reduction would literally make them go away. Even with them being small, though, I hate them being there.

I would simply like some advice- should I get rid of them, and is this even a normal thing? I have no plans for having biological children in the future, so they'll have no use anyway. What should I do?

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  • EnglishLad
    5 years ago

    Honestly, if a woman could not wear a bra and boobs weren't sexualised in such a manner as they are in western society, I think so many women would jump at the opportunity to burn their bras.

    I've heard so many women complain about how uncomfortable bras are, including my own mother, so I think tribal African women have the right idea.

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    • Bazinga
      5 years ago

      Yes. The sooner upper middle class white girls burn their bras, and let hair grow back on their legs, the better. A tribal atmosphere would be more peaceful for everybody.

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      • EnglishLad
        5 years ago

        Won't happen but I totally agree.

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  • charli.m
    5 years ago

    I have yet to hear of a woman who didnt have a problem with some part of her body.

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  • Fair_Lucy
    5 years ago

    You should try out wearing a binder. Trans men usually use them, but It could give you a feeling of what it's like without them. That being said, I've been told binders hurt if you wear them too long, so do what you want.

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  • CDmale4fem
    5 years ago

    Well an issue not mentioned yet, I would ask your age is ? A women very young even as far as medical advice goes I would think they would want you wait a few years to see if you feel the same. Now if you are say 35-45ish then you are well enough in touch with what you would like or not with your body. That being said, IT'S YOUR BODY. Do with it what you feel will make you happy and feel better about you. If you want to remove one and get implant in the other, your body your choice. List your pros and cons on paper, (and when done there flip a coin.) Just kidding on the coin. Myself I am one of those you mentioned. I sometimes wish or wonder how it would be to have my own real breasts, but mail order is cheaper and no explanation necessary to those that would ask. My point being, no matter who in life, I'm sure there are things we really wish we could change about our body. I'm torn between a full head of hair or maybe breasts. I'm not trying to make fun, I'm Just showing that many of us wonder the what if. But seriously- "DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY.

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    • dude_Jones
      5 years ago

      She's 33.

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