I am 22 and i fall in love with my 14 years old student.

I am a fresh graduate, and I teach math because I love it. Anw, I am 22 and I know a student of mine who is still 14 years old. I am 1990 and she is 1997.

I am not a teacher by profession, more like a business managerial profession. Teaching is my night job and I still love it. I work 2 jobs, I own a house, luxury cars, and substantial savings (I am debt free). I am from a very well off family, and I run my business since I am young.

Don't get me wrong, I don't have the slightest interest to have sex with a 14 years old. Maybe I would if she is 21 or older. 18 is still too young, she can't even drink alcohol. I will go for her when she is older, like 18 maybe?

The reason I like this girl is because I feel that her level of intelligence is way above normal people. Meaning: the kind of girl that can win Math Olympiad or something. I like a person with high intelligence the most. She is tutored for some advanced math stuff.

Another reason is that she is able to think and talk like girls my age. Which is weird. Some girls in my age is still not matured and thinks that they'll get six pack abs, intelligent, and rich guys to spend on them. To me, that's ridiculous.

I am sure that she got a crush on me, but I am not sure whether it is real or it is just her teenage hormone. For me, I never dated anyone since I spent all my teenage years to study and make money.

The hazard of being a tutor is to have your students crush on you. I have at least 8 girls crushing on my right now and I don't like them for the fact that most of them are not intellectually inclined, which is why they are in tutoring place in the first place.

Even her sister likes me so much. How do you define like? She meets me in places where it is really far from her class. She always says goodbye in a flirty way. And texting until late night. She cannot stop laughing and being happy near me. Weird huh? But her sister is 10 years old. And yes, I know my limits.

She is also from a well off family, which is good, since it is less difficult for my family to accept her, if it ever worked. I know her mom and not her dad. Her dad is working in another country.

I think that her parents might dislike me because:
- I am too old, 7 years apart (it is not like that in our culture)
- I am poor, because I am a tutor (not true)
- I am fat and ugly (well, I cut down more than 20 pounds since I met her, and more to come)

Another thing is that technically, I am not her tutor anymore, since I only tutored her for 3 weeks, and that's about 5 month's ago. She told me that she really wanted to have my class. But I said no.

I am leaving the US for work in foreign countries, maybe about 3 to 4 years. Because I am managing an international operations of a company. When I tell her that I'm leaving, she looks teary and also ask me whether I can postpone my leave. Of course I cannot.

Anyway, I think that this is a good time for me to stay away from her isn't it? I will try to find other people that is closer to my age. But I'm afraid that there aren't too many girls which have all of these qualities: beauty, intelligence, wealth, and personality.

Here's the question:

- Is it normal for me to ask her out to a dinner before I leave? Just a dinner.

- Should I bring other people? Should I bring her sister? Can I ask her just the two of us?

- How big is a big age gap? 10 years? 7? 5? 2?

- What if a tutor likes a girl 3 years younger whom he tutored for 3 weeks? Is that unprofessional?

- What if a tutor likes a girl 5 years younger whom he tutored for 3 weeks? Is that unprofessional?

- What if a tutor likes a girl 7 years younger whom he tutored for 3 weeks? Is that unprofessional?

- Why is it wrong for a person with profession as a teacher to love their student?

- What if a fireman likes a girl 7 years younger whom he saved her house from fire? is that unprofessional too?

- What if a doctor likes a girl 7 years younger who is also his patient? is that unprofessional?