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I was short and looked like a 12 year old in high school, so no girls were interested in me. After high school I gained some weight and didn't go out much. Now I am healthier and have more confidence than ever! But I don't know how to talk to girls because I never have really, is this normal? To be 21 and be clueless about girls?
Baby faced guys have always been attractive to a lot of women, look at Leonardo DiCaprio. He STILL looks about 15 and he gets plenty of action.
Nope the problem isn't with your size or looks, it's with your attitude. Girls like self confidence and humor in a guy.
Use some ingenuity when asking a girl out, not the same old, "Hey, you wanna go have a drink?". Find something fun, interesting and unique to do in your area and invite a girl out. "How about spending Saturday afternoon at the zoo together?" or a couple of hour tour on a sailing boat from a town dock near you, or horseback ride. There are just so many things other than the same old noisy, boring club scene.
Good luck.
I am 19, and never had a girlfriend, unless you count the one that I had in sixth grade that I was too scared to talk to. She was great in the sack though...just kidding, she was kind of inexperienced.