I am 30 , she is 19

Well yes she is young! But what will she miss out on in those so called 20-25 years?? She'll more than likely miss out on a lot of heartbreaks and losing her trust and faith in men! Just go for it. What do you have to lose? You don't even know if you'll both be compatible in a relationship yet.. you need to get it out of your system and find out. Nothing to lose only much to gain.

dude as long as she is mature enough, and you arent TOO mature for her is great. go for it. some chicks like olser dudes. but you still gotta treat her her age, in the fun aspect. my two friends got married at eighteen. sure they argue sometimes but the love is reakky there. i say go for and fuck what anyone else thinks.

Hmmmm... that's a tough one. But you know, you could have a long engagement, like 3 or 4 years. Just because you propose doesn't mean you have to get married in 6 months. An if it doesn't work out, then at least you know you tried and you won't be left wondering, "what if?" If you really love her (and she loves you), go for it! Good luck :)

I'm 20 married to a 44 yr old. It's normal

Get her drunk and get her to try anal sex. Start with ur dick in her pussy and start finger fucking her back door. She'll fall in love with ur dick and finger at the same time..

so basically you wanna get your dick wet. I love life stories they really help you get the idea in your head

Damn that was long!

Who says you two are going to get married? Just ask her out! Quit thinking about the future and just put yourself in the present.

You have the advantage, You are the "cool older guy". I would not deny my feelings fro (hah, fro...) the stupid reasons you mentioned. Just do it...whatever "it" is, just do it!

Don't propose to her. Don't move out of her life. Don't let that jerk steal her away. Don't tell her about your feelings for her. And, don't worry about her "missing out" on her 20-25 age--that's her decision to make about her own life.

If you like her, and she has a thing for you, explore that, and see if it leads somewhere. Maybe it will, maybe it won't, but you won't really know unless you try. As for conveying your feelings, do that only in very subtle ways, indirectly. Otherwise, you may end up chasing her away. And, there is nothing wrong with the 10 year age difference.

i totally understand you, i dated an older quy and still am, which is what any qirl would want because an older quy knows best with anythinq, you know. you should take the chance by telling her how you feel, and the other guy that is given her attention is probably just some jerk that wants nothing more with her but u kno, if u really care about her show her u do at least try u know, and i really dont think the age matters ... u can learn things from eachother , and as long as u give her space like dont let her miss out on her 20-25 age let her go out and experience things but that also means u are going to have to trust her ... u can also make it a group thing go out with her and her friends, but i would deff tell her !!