I always want it!

just to give you some back ground im 19 and i moved around alot, i live in the middle east now(Dubai United arab emirates) and im originaly italian, i dont belive virginity is as important as people say it is, i belive its somthing totaly natural.
i lost my virginity when i was 17 and a half years old, to one of my friends at that time it was just a fling basicly. since then ive been a sort of sex maniac(but only in my head)im really shy about it. i have had only 5 partners and im in a relationship now, i think so much about sex its crazy...masterbating is ok, but its just not the same, but when i do actully have sex im really insecure about myself...i hate it because i know if i could just open up i would have alot more fun. i dont exactly know what to do with it, i have so many fantasies that i would love to do, but im to shy....
can any body give me some advice?? and is this normal?!!?

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Based on 12 votes (11 yes)
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  • WayOutThere

    Yes, this is normal. You need a partner who is very open and communicative about sex, to whom you can start telling your fantasies. Then, depending on the fantasy, and how comfortable you are both with it, he can help you make it become reality. He shouldn't be judgmental about your fantasies.

    If your current partner isn't like that, find another one.

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