I always feel annoying?

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So, basically does anyone else feel like this?
When I meet new people, get their number or whatever I'm always scared to message them, I mean I'll message them first for a while then I'll just feel annoying if they don't make the effort? So I just give up :( and lose friends. But if they message me first I know I'm not annoying them cause they obviously want to talk to me.
Anyone else feel like this? How do I sort this?

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  • howlsilver
    9 years ago

    Why will you message someone if you have nothing important to say? Ask yourself that question. People who doesnt respond are just not in the mood to reply, txt or chat, they arent annoyed. Dont waste your time to person with no effort to know you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      But if no one makes the effort then how do friendships happen? Why does no one make effort with me :/ is it cause I feel annoying so I don't make effort?

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      • green_boogers
        9 years ago

        Just expect to get a low response rate - like 20% or so.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          :/

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      • howlsilver
        9 years ago

        Right people will come to you at the right time and at the right place. If the person you approach doesnt make an effort, then dont bother. Learn to accept yourself first. Lower the pride. Making friendship is not forcing someone to be friends with you, but finding someone who understands you.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    When you message someone and don't receive a response, just think of it as a 'voice mail' and don't fret about it.

    Also, a lot of people tend to leave their skype or whatever on when they're not even there. Always pisses me off.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I want them to message first tho :P

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      • KeepsakeDoll
        9 years ago

        Most people want the other party to message them first, too. So in the end both parties just end up playing the waiting game sometimes.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          Yeh its not good

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    • (s)aint
      9 years ago

      My phone automatically signs me in ... can't do much about it.

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