I always cheat on my boyfriends

Okay, so i consider myself to be a rather good looking girl, I've been told often that im insanely charming and just sort of have a magnetic pull to me. I have no problem getting boyfriends and I love having a boyfriend. No matter how much I care for my boyfriend though...I always end up cheating. I simply can't control myself. every boyfriend I've ever had I have cheated on 2 times or more...always ending in intercourse. Even if my boyfriend gives me amazing sex I always want it from someone else. It makes me feel so bad about myself because the guys I date are always really good guys that would never cheat on me and do everything for me. I feel like im a heartless nympho sometimes. I just love the excitement of having sex with new guys....I also feel like I think about sex way more then the average girl. When I have a boyfriend he gets like 3 blow jobs a day and sex everyday if not a couple times a day. I know all my boyfriends just think they are in heaven...but really i play every single one of them Is this at all normal?

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Based on 527 votes (198 yes)
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  • Im kind of like u so i understand

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    • rayb12

      Yeah you two are probably borderlines. But it isn't more sex you need, it's more love. These guys who will do anything for you are probably narcissists. And you can tell on some level they are thinking they can help you as a way of inflating their own ego. Which is an insult to both your worth and your agency in solving your own problems. I don't think you need meds per se but I would see a therapist that specializes in BPD. This is key. If it's not their specialty they will hurt you. It is a long road, but talk therapy can help and there are guys out there that can handle you and you can live a good life.

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  • Judas_misunderstood

    Young people cheat. Fact.

    I think you ought to stay away from committed relationships until you get the craving for bulk, strange cock out of your system, though. You're going to hurt good people otherwise, which you will regret later on.

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  • SomeRandomPerson

    Yeah, your just too horny.

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  • HarshbutTrue

    lol you think you have a magnetic pull? im also a nympho and im male, i have a girlfriend and i dont cheat on her, we just fuck....ALOT, but hell . i think we could have some fun

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  • steph19913

    Well it might be normal but just be careful you might pass up the right guy and then you'll end up being alone

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  • mossle88

    I also have this problem. It only happens when I am drunk, not sober or high. But yeah it is a real problem so I think I'm going to go to the psychologist about it and I'll let you know how it goes and what the psychologist says.

    I think some of the advice on here is complete rubbish, I don't want to be in a relationship where cheating is ok, I just want to stop doing it myself.

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    • HaleyQuinn

      I feel the same way. When I was 14 I lost my virginity and ever since I haven't been able to sustain a normal relationship. When I was younger I just thought it was okay; that I was young and having fun and would change when I met the right guy. When I was 18 I was with a guy for a year, I cheated throughout the relationship and it ended because I thought that this one guy I cheated with was worth sticking with... that turned out to be a mistake but then I carried on being single for a year and slept with lots of guys. Then I met my current bf whom I've been with for 4 years. I love him but cheat on him. I slept with my college tutor 3 months into the relationship, then my ex... then one of his best friends. If my boyfriend knew they way I've been treating our relationship he would end it. I don't know how to stop. I find it impossible. I use sex chat rooms to meet guys - I feel so seedy! Did you ever see a psychologist? What happened?

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  • princessx3

    I think you just love sex! It's not a bad thing, some girls don't feel they need it all the time when others do. It's deffinetly nothing to be ashamed of. But personally, you may look too easy for a guy. Which may hurt you in the end when you are ready to settle down with just one guy. Noone loves a slut!

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  • Laubotje

    can i have your number

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  • r_smitty

    It's normal for a woman to think about cheating, and maybe occasionally to cheat. What you are describing is not normal. It's a sex addiction.
    It will destroy your life if you don't get it under control. You should google sex addiction and learn about it. Then you might want to join a 12 step program.

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  • Sonar

    Yes Yes thats why every guy wants you

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  • Darkbrokenangel_28

    Maybe u have to find that special one that you won't cheat on.And if do cheat on him talk to him if you love him.

    Maybe you using sex as pain,fear alot of people do that.

    Or maybe you love sex to much.Maybe ask your boyfriend too give you alittle bit in stand of giving it like a blowjob or a handjob.Or maybe do it yourself in stand of cheating it might work out.

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  • combatgal856

    Maybe you are not ready to be settled with just one person for a loong time yet. As long as it isn't any random guys then I guess its normal

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  • You apparently have quite an appetite for sex. But it would be mean to hurt people with your infidelity if they do not understand that that is what you are all about. And if that is part of what yo get off on - betrayal and deceit - then I feel badly for the people you hurt.

    I think you should just be on the level with all your partners. Let them know that you want and have multiple sex partners. I also hope you & they are protected from STDs.

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    • cubinsc

      You would be better off in a FWB relationship. Or find a boyfriend who shares your loose sense of morality.

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  • your a fucking slut close your legs you probably have stds and giving them to all those poor guys i feel bad for your bf and he deserves better if he does everything for you you need to put yourself in his shoes and see how he feels you might become pregnant and dont even know who the father is... how sad this is some kinda maury shit.. lol but for reals how would you feel if he went behind your back.. and slept with several women.. umm and might have an std and give it to you O_O girl you need to go to the doctors and get checked.. this is seriously wrong and bad for you to be doing..& if your a cheater you shouldnt have a boyfriend at all just be single and you can sleep with many guys as you want without getting in trouble your just hurting the guys your with so better off single and getting checked..im not trying to be mean but its true and you need to be careful & think about your body more then sex.. and think about your partner more.. i think i find you selfish and want things just to yourself like i said just be single.. & yeah you'll be fine..

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  • I'm free next weekend lol!

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  • CRUCIFIXIOUS

    You cheating really has notthing to do about who your seeing... you could be with the best guy or the worst guy... it has totally everything to do with you are you a cheater or not? A cheater is gonna cheat no matter what.. My first girlfriend was exactly like you.. And it comes down to are you happy and is your partner happy? everyone in the end must do what will make them happy and those who tag along should do so aswell, so no one is "obligated" to do anything. No one can live in a lie forever.. The girl or guy will one day find out you are cheating and you will feel hurt.. and its not really because the other partner got hurt its cuz your lie wasent good enough and you failed at keeping the lie.. just keep telling people you are a cheater.. and you will find someone just like you! there are over 6 billion people in this world you will find someone who thinks as you do that would love to share your lifestyle.

    P.S. any dude is gonna say your charming, magnetic, and all those kinda things if he things he will get in your pants easy.. it might be true, chances are its not. What you should take it as; is, the actions you are doing show you are a really easy target to get into bed.

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  • germanstallion123

    I'm free too! But seriously, fuck you. You are disgusting and should feel terrible for jerking these guys off.. (heh).. maybe you can find an equally sleezy asshole that will accept your infidelity?

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  • BigRedOne

    Your my kind of heartless nympho!!

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    • sandmansgirl

      Interesting...

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  • PinkyP

    You're a dirty little slag.

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  • Mersaphe

    Normal. It's ok for a guy to do this but not for a girl? Double standards in society

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  • I am the man version of you, except as a guy it's more difficult for me to find different girls to fuck, so I would have to go to escorts, even though I am decent looking. A girl like you is a big turn on, but difficult to maintain a relationship. I guess we are both screwed up

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  • ries2226

    Maybe you're polyamorous? Don't listen to these slut shaming fools. There's nothing wrong with being drawn to multiple partners, as long as you're safe, open , and honest about it.

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  • HaleyQuinn

    I feel the same way. When I was 14 I lost my virginity and ever since I haven't been able to sustain a normal relationship. When I was younger I just thought it was okay; that I was young and having fun and would change when I met the right guy. When I was 18 I was with a guy for a year, I cheated throughout the relationship and it ended because I thought that this one guy I cheated with was worth sticking with... that turned out to be a mistake but then I carried on being single for a year and slept with lots of guys. Then I met my current bf whom I've been with for 4 years. I love him but cheat on him. I slept with my college tutor 3 months into the relationship, then my ex... then one of his best friends. If my boyfriend knew they way I've been treating our relationship he would end it. I don't know how to stop. I find it impossible. I use sex chat rooms to meet guys - I feel so seedy! Did you ever see a psychologist? What happened?

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  • Claire2989

    Anybody that is calling you a slut is a **** who is conforming to social sterotypes of women. I think it's hard for people to advise you on this kind of situation because unless you are in the middle of the situation I don't think you can really pass judgement. You're obviously upset about it because you posted on here and asked if you're normal. I think you just need to decide what you want. If alcohol is the problem then drink less or not at all. Although you do need to be careful because it's other peoples feelings at stake too and that's unfair.

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  • easymt528

    You like sex to much to be committed to one guy. The smart thing for you to do is not have a boyfriend then you can have sex with whomever you want. I think once there is someone you really like, you may take it really bad if they ever cheat on you.

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  • lolager123

    well,thats like me i really didnt no wa to do so i jjust done whats best,find some-one nnew,and who wont make you have sex but after a few months we started having it and were still together now.

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  • rtspcc

    Many people can't settle with one person, no matter how close they are to that person. It's called Polyamory; and it's pretty normal.
    However, rather than cheating on your boyfriends, it might be more moral to tell your boyfriends that you are having sex with other guys, and to only date guys who are okay with that.

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    • flowers-madness

      I think I must be polyamorous too. I hate the idea of having sex with just ONE person every time, and occasionally even develop feelings for people other than my significant other. I don't think its normal to most people but to the people that experience this quality of personality, like myself, could find strictly monogamous people just as weird.

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  • carr

    This happens to alot of us, to some of us is just a stage that we go thru. Hopefully it leaves soon bc it's nt fair to ur partner.

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  • copycat123

    Nice

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  • bleedingundeadheart

    hell i need a girlfriend or friend BTW your normal cause you act like my sister

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  • Sweetz

    Your pheromones are probably really high

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  • BigRedOne

    Hey you can't help it you love to smoke the johnson!!

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