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Pretty much every time we have sex. He's truly a wonderful boyfriend and everything important I need in a partner he has, but I just can't stop myself from imagining others. I especially fantasize about his older brother.
Ok so... he’s a wonderful boyfriend and is everything you needed in a partner BUT you still fantasize about other people including his brother? Break up with him. You don’t deserve him.
If you’re actually able to think about much of anything you are having shit sex.
If it’s for stimulation, it’s normal, but if it’s out of boredom with him, it’s not. You need to do some self examination to decide.
Clearly, he's not everything you want, since you can't give him your undivided attention during your most intimate moments. You should do him a favor and break up with him, let him have an opportunity to find someone who can actually keep her mind on him. Maybe you'll find someone who fuck you so good your mind won't have time to wander off.