I absolutley hate my mother.

I'm 17 years old and live with my sister and my mother. I kinda get on with my sister but absolutely cant stand in the same room as my mother for more than 5 minutes. The way she talks,eats, goes about things makes me sick to my stomach. When arguing i feel like slamming her head off a window. I just dont know what it is. She just irritates me so bad that I hate her. Is this normal?

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Based on 112 votes (73 yes)
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  • boston12

    to all u posting 'your horrible and grow up its ur mother', u r not helping. u dont no the full story. would u expect sumone to love theirmother if she was abusing them? sexually, verbally, emotionally, pyhsically ? families are complex and never perfect. put sum space between ur mum and yourself.

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  • drugsrbadmkay

    It's normal to get annoyed with your parents in your teen years. Once you're out of the house and on your own you will start to like her more and more again.

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  • swiftie

    Firstly, those people who thinks she's mean is wrong. Plain WRONG. Because you don't understand and you never will. You have a great family who loves one another and sit around the table every Thanksgiving loving the Lord and eating turkey. You know what my and so many other people's families (like above) do? Our parents chuck things and curse each other out while us kids sit there and pray to God for this BS to stop. My mother uses me and my sister as her shield and sword in her own marriage issues, and she told me she'll kill me if I don't tell my Dad and Grandpa a lot of the hurtful stuff that she wants to say. She also yanks me by the hair in front of my Dad, tells him to watch, and starts beating the daylights out of me so he'll accede to her requests. I just asked her if I could go to my best friend's birthday party and she said no plus threw in a few slaps and punches. And she was really counting me going. It's hard to make any friends when you can't go to the mall, have to go straight home after school, never have parties and can't even let them come to your house because your psychotic mother is lying in wait there. I protect her when my friends ask me about the bruises and wounds, because I think she's still my mother after all (and she also told me to lie) and all that, but sometimes I really wonder why I'm doing this at all. There is so much more and I can't write them all here but it pains my heart to even think about them. God bless all you other people and I think I'll have to tough the rest of my 4 years out.

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  • i hate my mum all she does is shout at me slap me grab my head hit it against walls and doors, shakes it like I have nothink I there... but what can I do about it... nothink I have to live with it and all the beatings, all cause i try to have my own thoughts and opinions and my dad just stands there and watches and shouts at me for crying. Soo I understand how you could hate you mum.

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  • lovinick

    Post this again when she's sick and about to die.

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  • rebel1186

    no matter how much she annoys u she is still ur mother....enjot ur time with her as long as u can cause sooner or later she wont be there anymore and u will miss her more then u know..... trust me i lost my mother when i was ur age and i regret every mean thinf i did and said to her and i wish i could of had more time with.....

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  • hate my mom too. dad had to leave when me and my brother were born (twins) and she HATES us. feelings are extremely mutual.

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  • just punch her face in

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  • ImMe

    I hate my mother too... not for the same reasons you hate your mom thought, I hate her for hurting my dad. Any animal can give birth but that doesn’t make it a mother. My mom was VERY abusive to me, my siblings, and my dad when i was young and my dad loved her very much. My dad put my mom through college to be a teacher and she was two weeks away from taking the praxis exam to get her license and she left my dad and moved into an apartment that she had paid rent on for a year and completely furnished using credit cards that she had maxed out in my dad's name (he was dyslexic so he had no idea). My dad raised me and my 5 other siblings by himself. My dad swore if any woman ever broke is heart again it would be one of his daughters and he never even so much as looked at another woman again... he just recently passed away. So to all you people who think it’s wrong to hate your mother sometimes you should hear the whole story before you judge.

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  • rebel1186

    np....i do understand how u feel me and my mom fought all the time just remember that she is ur mother and loves u and she wont be around forever....

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  • rebel1186 . thanks for the support it really made me think. as fot the rest, i was only asking for advice because i cant help the way i feel.

    SMITH_84

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  • amariexo

    you're horrible, it's your mother! grow up.

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  • what is wrong with you, she's your mom the one who gave birth to you and now your living with her............ i cant stand you........ maybe you should just go and leave your mom and dont ever hurt her, and no its not normal you horrible mean human being!

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