I absolutely despise the bar/club scene

Last night I was invited to go out to the bars by a group of guys I work with. It had been a particularly hellish day at work and I was too tired, but I agreed to go out after. I've been trying to be more social with people lately. Motherfucker, I couldn't even pretend that I was having a good time. I fucking hated it. Passionately. It's so god damn loud. So so loud. I could feel the music in my lungs. Everybody was having a great time and I was miserable. And when I mentioned that it was too loud and crowded, my companions didn't get it. They thought it was fine.

If I hang out with people I want to go to someone's house, or a restaurant or something where we can talk and get to know each other. Not some vacuous, soul sucking bar where it's too fucking crowded. And I have no interest in picking up some slut and taking her home for a one night stand either. I want a more meaningful experience in that department. Please tell me it's normal. Although I know that for way too many people it's totally normal to go out and do the club thing all the time. What a waste.

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Based on 23 votes (19 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • Steve2

    Perfectly normal and in fact, admirable. Most people in our SICKENING world are too stupid to realise that the bar/club scene is merely a cheap attempt to keep the plebeians entertained while the intelligent become depressed after realising how horrible our world is.

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    • bucho's_butt

      Excellent comment.

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      • LittleGirlGagedAndRaped

        Well bucho's_butt, apparently this is where we part ways... I'll always remember you as the one who came, but, then becum....

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        • bucho's_butt

          What's wrong? You don't like me any more?

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          • LittleGirlGagedAndRaped

            I'm just fucking with you butt-hole... Get it? Fucking with your butt-yole

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  • flyingnostalgia

    Yes its normal

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  • 53739

    I have heard that it is very loud.

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  • fugazi

    The whole point of places like that is just to get drunk so if you're not a heavy drinker you probably wouldn't enjoy it as it's more designed for drunk people.

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  • ThingOne

    Mix yourself a drink on Saturday night, and log into IIN. The people here are rude, crude, and far less socially developed than club people. They tend to have IQs that are a bit better than average, and take great pleasure in the art of creative, yet subtle insults.

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  • thegypsysailor

    In my day, a night in a club was pretty much a night without conversation. You young people have got that wired. I saw 4 girls in a club texting each other and they were sitting at the same table. Sadly it was 4 girls alone, but at least they understood the conversation.

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    • fugazi

      How do you know they were texting each other?

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