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When looking at lesbian porn, I try to look for stuff that doesn't focus on their faces because of this.
I still find women's faces very attractive, it's just that these facial expressions that the pornstars make really turn me off. They're so... I dunno, exaggerated?
I’ve heard that a lot of queer women don’t like lesbian porn at all because it’s so catered towards male arousal. I’m not into lesbian porn myself but a lesbian I know told me she prefers to read woman on woman erotica so perhaps that could work for you?
That's the problem with porn. A lot of the faces, noises, and sexual acts in it are way too exaggerated. Even the amateur stuff is starting to follow that protocol and it's such a turn off. XD
Totally normal. Most lesbian porn is actually made for men sadly. Porn isn’t great to be consuming anyway, with how many people are coming out recently saying they were pressured into it. Personally I’d recommend erotica. Lesbian erotic is almost always written by women and so will be more enjoyable for women. You also know no one was forced into it as well which is a nice bonus.
I've avoided professionally-produced porn for a long time because it's so fake in various ways. And, yeah, part of the fakery is performers who deliberately over-exaggerate their reactions for the benefit of the viewers.
These days, it's not difficult to find amateur porn where the people behave - or at least appear to behave - in much more natural ways.
But I wonder if part of your aversion to women who are very demonstrative during sex could be due to you being embarrassed by the thought that you might look like that when you're really into what someone is doing with you. Some people are very self-conscious about how they look and sound during sex, and that's not a good thing. Not only is providing feedback to your partner helpful in letting them know what you like, deliberately restraining yourself blocks you from being fully in the moment.
I dont like that about porn. The fake moaning bother me. I usually mute it.