I’m paranoid that my girlfriend lies to me to make me happy

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My girlfriend and I go to the same school. I’ve only been in one other relationship in my life and I feel as if I’m left scarred by it. To me it seems too good to be true, she doesn’t get mad at me ever, she says I’m attractive without flaws, she says I’m just good at everything I do related to sex (even though I was a virgin before we started dating). I don’t know what to think. I hope she is being honest, and if she isn’t then she’s a saint but an unhonest one.

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  • JD777
    5 years ago

    This kind of paranoia is what could make you lose what could be the best thing that’s happened to you up to now. Maybe you ARE all that. At least she seems to think so. Try to appreciate it.

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  • Whatintarnation
    5 years ago

    Everything is roses in the beginning. Give it time. True nature will reveal itself

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  • leggs91200
    5 years ago

    As Lestat565 mentioned - we tend to lie to those we care about in order to spare their feelings. So it is kind of funny - we do something "bad" with good intentions.

    Now in your case, she is probably not lying. There are a couple reasons -

    1) If there were a problem, she would not hide it from you. Women are very good at finding and pointing out faults in their partners.

    2) As Whatintarnation said, everything is roses in the beginning. Even a person's flaws or bad habits seem cute at first. You like everything about the person. But as time goes on, you start to get annoyed with the other's flaws, bad habits, etc.

    So for now, just enjoy how things are. Try not to read too deep in it.

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    • aidonger
      5 years ago

      thank you for the advice I really appreciate it.

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  • Lestat565
    5 years ago

    Of course she lies to you. Everybody lies including you. You can’t tell me that you haven’t lied to her before because you cared about her feelings. We tend to lie more to those we care for than those we don’t. And I’m someone who hates lies. I believe that one lie makes every truth look like a lie. But I have still lied in the past and likely will in the future. Everyone lies.

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  • ohdearyme
    5 years ago

    Why would she?

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    Paranoia is bad.

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