I’m attracted to a girl who identifies as a boy

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There is a pretty girl I go to school with who identifies as a boy. She goes by the name Damien and believes she should of been born a boy. She often says “just cos my birth certificate says I’m a girl doesn’t mean I am one.”
I find her really attractive and her gender bending hot
Which is weird for me cos I am heterosexual. I would love to have sex with a girl who thinks she’s a boy. But I would never have sex with a man or a ladyboy

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Based on 9 votes (5 yes)

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SkullsNRoses

4 years ago

The fact that you call him a girl when he’s asked you to call him a boy suggests that this isn’t going to work unless you educate yourself on trans people.

Also finding gender fluid people attractive is normal, but this person will not look androgynous forever, after hormones and surgery he will look like a man and it sounds like you wouldn’t like that.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  She never asked me that. I’m calling her a she so that it’s clear the genitalia she contains as that is pivotal in a post that addressed aspects of my sexuality
  
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  - SkullsNRoses
    
    4 years ago
    
    His genitalia would also have been clear if you called him a “pre-op trans guy” or “guy who was born a girl” or even “guy with a vagina”, there’s no need to call him “she” or “her”. Deliberately misgendering someone is rude.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Deliberately telling someone how they should detail to you their sexuality is rude
      Just who ya think ya are buddy lol
      
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      It’s my sexuality I’ll express it how I see fit dammit
      
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      - SkullsNRoses
        
        4 years ago
        
        I didn’t prescribe you a sexuality- that’s your own job to define.
        
        That does not change the fact that you should respect trans people’s pronouns, if they are female-to-male trans they should be called he/him, regardless of circumstances.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        We have a thing called freedom of speech too, look it up sometime it may be very liberating to you
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        Look things might have gotten a bit warped here. If she wanted me to call her a boy I would, hell I’d call her a unicorn if she wants it
        But for the sake of posing a question about my sexuality I need it to be clear her gender origin as that is what I’m attracted to
        Are you ok with that? I feel like we’ll keep going round in circles otherwise.
        My choices, my words, my sexuality. It’s really none of your business but thanks for the most pointless chat I’ve ever had on this site
        You keep pushing an insane virtue you will end up insane no doubt
        And you keep worrying about all these little narcissism’s in peoples egos then you will become narcissistic yourself, if you aren’t already.
        FACT
        it’s not too late for you I know it’s not
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        What you’re basically saying is I’m not allowed to express myself the way I see fit as it’s disrespectful but I always have to express properly the way other people express themselves?
        Fuck that!!
        You are number one, look after yourself, define yourself, find yourself keep pushing for me. All we have is inner truth. All we can convey to others is through this constructed language. Don’t deconstruct the language I’ve used to construct myself.
        
        You take my point right? I start talking about how I’m interested in a boy and that is a falsity
        I’m NOT
        I’m interested in a girl
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        You just said two contraditory things. My god you’re confused.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        Look I could go round telling people I’m an alien. They would probably still refer to me to others as human though and that’s ok cos it’s a point of reference. You start talking aliens and context gets lost
        
        What is important here is context
        I respect my right to be able to provide context in order to properly express the inner workings of my own desire
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        Is any respect allowed to me to express my sexuality in the clearest terms in order to make sense of it?
        
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Yeah see that’s not clear to me. I’m attracted to the female part not the boy she thinks she is
      
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BleedingPain

4 years ago

You might want to move on as she/he sounds transgender.

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- Doesnormalmatter
  
  4 years ago
  
  But its transphobic not to want to have sex with a person with a dick who identifies ad a girl if your a straight male!
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Don’t transgender people have sex?
  
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  - BleedingPain
    
    4 years ago
    
    They do. It is to my best understanding that When someone says they are the opposite gender of their birth certificate, they are trans and probably will make the transition somewhere dont the line to have the opposite genitalia
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Oh right. Can you get a dick put on? I didn’t know you could
      I suppose you could wear a strap on around the place
      
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      - BleedingPain
        
        4 years ago
        
        I do not know where this conversation went down hill.
        
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        4 years ago
        
        You said that somewhere down the line she will have the opposite genitalia. I’m just wondering how this is possible for a girl transitioning to a boy
        
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  4 years ago
  
  I’m only talking about one person
  
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Doesnormalmatter

4 years ago

I would just forget about it. The mental stability of trans people is in question so I would not risk a relatipnship if I were you.

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Grunewald

4 years ago

Does she know how you feel? Why not ask her on a date then talk to her about it when you know each other better? Not all trans people want to transition. And people can change their minds about what they want.

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LloydAsher

4 years ago

Sucks to be you buddy. Plenty of fish in the sea.

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litelander8

4 years ago

Trans people need lovin too!

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curious-bunny

4 years ago

Hes tras and if pursues it theres a high chance he will end up looking like any other dude. Eventually even in your own mind you'll be having gay sex

-diary of a trans woman

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  I suppose I just want to fuck a boy with female genitalia
  It’s the whole gender fluid thing that’s hot. It’s like fucking both at the same time but in only one person
  
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