Husband will find sex elsewhere

45% Normal
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After my c-section i didn't feel sexual AT ALL. My tubes were tied and my dream of having a daughter would be on hold until i could get the finances to adopt one.

My husband told me that if i didn't have sex with him he would go elsewhere. He didn't just say that once, but many times when i wasn't in the mood.
He thinks it is funny, but it hurts me. Is it normal to be hurt by what he says or should i just think it is funny man-banter?
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HISTORY:(We have been married 14 years and never dated or had sex with anyone else.)

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45% Normal
Based on 20 votes (9 yes)
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Comments ( 6 )
  • roxco
    13 years ago

    He's like telling you he's going to hire a prostitute!!! What a jackass!!! He probably already did since men are Horney jerks who only care about their own pleasure!! I would spy on him if I were you

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  • biblebashingtreehugger
    15 years ago

    does he know how it makes you feel, he probably doesnt understand that you dont find that kind of joke funny. its perfectly normal to be upset by it, try to talk to him about it.

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  • Jmarobick
    11 years ago

    Come on you have to do something for the poor guy. Oral sex / handjob.

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  • --ash--
    13 years ago

    Don't come crying back here when he's gone & spent all his money on prostitutes & you have no money for food, cause it's all tour fault! Give him what he wants! It's your duty.

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  • BlackShadow123
    13 years ago

    Are you seriously not going to have sex with him?
    Because after awhile, hes going to get pissed by that.

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  • knoshann
    13 years ago

    I think after a while that would drive him away.

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