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My husband holds a fleshlight against my stomach when we have sex. Except we're not really having sex because he's using the fleshlight. He says my vagina is too hot and uncomfortable. Is this normal?
This is totally NOT normal! So, doing it with the flesh light gets him off, but what do you get out of the encounter? Anything? I don't believe his explanation. A woman's pussy is supposed to be hot! That's one of the things a guy normally loves about it. I would wonder if he has an STD and is trying to be romantic with you without infecting you. If that's the case, you're still at risk.
You may be right about the STD, but romantic? More like selfish, self-centred and narcissistic
I think you're on to something with the STD idea. I bet that's what's really going on
Maybe. More likely that he thinks she is going to try to get pregnant without his approval.
Well, they are married. He has a mouth and presumably can speak, so maybe he can talk to her and tell her he's not ready to have a child. Additionally condoms are sold at all drug stores so I find your supposition to be far fetched. Besides the OP who is posting this question is the wife and not the husband. I don't know why you're immediately jumping to some paranoid conclusion about OP.
Most likely her husband is a selfish, degenerate sex addict who spends way too much time watching internet pornography and masturbating. He has probably acclimated himself to to apparatus so much so that he now prefers it to the real thing, because he's fucked up all the pleasure centers in his brain from all the years of diddling, and self abuse.
#1 - he has an STD
#2 - what is this doing for you as far as "getting off"?
#3 - I have never heard of one being "too hot and uncomfortable".
what the hell! Leave him immediately and come to me. I would never choose a flesh light over a real pussy as the warmth in the pussy with all that pussy juice is what a real man wants his dick to feel when fucking.
I dont see any reason you should be with him cox yr not getting anything from him.
It´s perfectly fine to spice things up once in a while, a woman can use a dildo and a man can use a flesh light (Or a dildo :p)
But it should not be like you describe it. Ask him what´s really going on. Penises likes warmth and moisture.
I reckon he either has an STD as suggested or he's addicted to the fleshlight. Whatever the cause, why are you putting up with it? Maybe time for you to get yourself a good vibrator (or two or three) and see how he likes that .... Lovehoney is the best online site I know of