How would you masturbate if you are female?

You're probably best off just starting with your fingers.

Anything big and long

My wife masturbates for me to watch and shes' got her own set way to do it. After dropping the panties, she spreads wide on a chair, feet propped up on the arms. She take a bit of spit on her middle finger and uses it to lube up her clit first and then slowly rubs in circular motions around it from outside the lips. After a couple of minutes, she will begin to get wet inside, and she will dip her fingers into the fuckhole to gather up some juice which she then uses to lube up the rest of the pussy, her anus, and her nipples.

It's extremely hot to watch her lube up her asshole and nips as I jerk off slowly looking.

Then she's ready to go, and rubs about the clit, still on the outside of the lips until she's readty to hold open the lips and then go over and under it in circles but not right not it.. all around it but NOT on it.

From time to time she will dip into her flowing cunt for more clit lube as it dries out, and while there will fingerfuck her pussy for a few strokes but mostly stays outside and rubs until she starts to cum, then she uses both hands -- one to fluff the clit, the other 3 fingers up her snatch.

Kinky rough and slutty using anything i can to fuck every hole

you hold the guys ears and steer , its just that easy.

With a vibrator? A huge 14 inch dildo? A toothbrush? A shoe? Girls have it easy considering what they can masterbate with literally anything long and hard will do.